:) Hey There :)

Real quick: We are seeking a FEMALE for D/s activities, day trips, dinners out, possibly vacations, and mutual gratification (in whatever form that may take) -If that's you READ ON :)

A word about U/us: We are a very committed couple (25) that seeks our special 'shared companion'.

We have been into D/s since we have been together (10 years), but we're not 7x24, leather BDSM club types. We have had ONE girlfriend before (same girl ~2 years) and loved it. It was a 50/50 vanilla and D/s relationship that was a wonderful experience for everyone. While it did have to end, it ended very nicely. It left everyone a little richer spiritually. After that experience we determined that we are very LTR or poly compatible -provided the right girl came along. :)

We do seek a relationship that we can 'share' but separate playtime is possible after a comfort level is reached. My wife is Bi but Bi- Curious ladies are welcome. :)

We are not looking for a random 'hook up' type thing. Friends to Friends w/ benefits would be the best way for us to start. A 'NSA' situation might work depending the your schedule and other outside relationships; we do have our own lives.

You may have determined we don't have a narrow vision of this dynamic so we are fairly open to ideas. Given that - a Friends w/ benefits between us and another couple is also possibility (just concerned about the number of cooks in the kitchen).

The pic is of her and we can CAM or phone chat if it looks like we have enough in common.

A word to the subbies: For a LTR we are not looking for a doormat. In looking at a submissive we want someone with a 'healthy' view of her role not someone who wants true abuse. There are no (zero) anger issues here but that doesn't mean we won't make you whimper ;)

A word to the S/switches: Please realize that we would value both sides of your persona and that usurpers need not apply. We seek a switch who knows how to work things out not pout or get catty :)

A word to both: We seek an adult, someone who might understand that love and commitment aren't limited to traditional dogma. We are very close (almost one person) and that is the only reason we could even consider a sharing our lives to a third.

A word to non of the above:
For some folks the idea of Dom/sub titles are a little too restrictive. To us these are aspects of our personalities and they describe what we do and how we do it. As stated above we are not 7x24, protocol auditors.


A word to ALL of the above:
We don't live in some extensional dream world. We do have a vanilla side, it pays the bills, feeds the cats etc. Its a necessary part of our lives and one that we do enjoy just as much as the D/s side.