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PsychoRebel

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Want to explore Tantra and deep relaxation within the BDSM context, as way of mutual self-empowerment.

I will be writing a book: 'BDSM TANTRA' or 'The Tantra of BDSM'

New to BDSM but have had a handful of sessions, most were freestyle "BDSM". Only a couple of those were structured as a standard BDSM session.

Here on this site for one reason only and that's to find a nice sub to enjoy consensual BDSM exploration in a sane and fun fashion. Nothing less, nothing more.

I may be "naturally" submissive or have an eager-to-please tendency, but that is not something I want to exercise, rather I'm into BDSM to exercise my "less natural" Dominant quality.

SO, just because I may be inclined toward submission, doesn't indicate that I must thus admit and embrace "my submissive nature". Fuck that. I'm into BDSM to correct that very leaning and tip the scales of my attitudeto the Dominant side.
If you like the idea of being that individual who I can explore my Dominance with, or upon, then do not hesitate to contact me.

It would be best if you are petite, that wasy things are more proportional. And you are one who enjoys slender Men.

9/24/2010 8:46:07 PM
Also, while I'm on a roll here, I may as well also emphasize that at this time I am not interested nor the least bit curious to experiment with other men in a homosexual way; Rather, I'm beginning to be more open to the idea of learning from and with other heterosexual males how to work with and on the females in a BDSM context.

In other words, I am hetero-sexually oriented.
9/24/2010 8:37:14 PM
So I think it's time I update my orientation as it seems as though the World is telling me to admit that I'm really 'Switch'. That I'm simply not a full on Dom at this time. Alright, true, World, true.

I am certainly not a total 'sub', and clearly not a total 'Dom'.  However, I am 'sub' > 'Dom', only by nurture and conditioning, whereas I am 'Dom' > 'sub', by nature and will; thus, 'Switch'.
notsodesperate20
 
 Age: 50
 Ukiah, California