Collarspace.com

This is my first time posting to a site like this and I'm not sure where to begin so I’ll start with a brief history. My family is originally from Virginia but I have spent most my life everywhere else. Half of that was spent in Europe where I got my degree and the name I’m using on here.

I’ve been a Software Engineer going on twenty years and am now working as a consultant and project manager for telecommunications companies and their contracting firms. I have to travel occasionally but manage to keep most of my work moving through the phone and a high-speed web connection.

For many years I practiced a BDSM lifestyle purely by instinct. It’s very easy to do when you develop trust with a partner and then take the time to learn what drives her crazy. :} After finally teaming up with a woman that used the web to point me toward special things she desired did I become aware of the formal BDSM world such as this site. We learned much together but life moves on and she is now no longer part of my life in that way.

Which brings me here to see if maybe I can find someone who’s interest and desires match mine. I have too wide a range of interest and much curiosity about things not yet attempted to be able to put all that down in a short profile. I’ll keep working on it though…

I also don’t want to limit myself here with descriptions of my likes and dislikes or what exactly I am looking for primarily because there is no hard definition of what I want in a woman beyond the desire to submit. The only real requirement is a connection of understanding, desire, trust, and respect. After that, the rest is easy.

Naturally that’s not something discovered simply by browsing profiles. Though there are a couple here that certainly come close on the surface. I live in southern Virginia in the Blue Ridge Mountains near the North Carolina border and am considering building a new home here. Send me a note if you live anywhere nearby and would like to know more about me and maybe trade pictures.

Nearby being a relative term defined as being within a few hours drive. Living in the mountains is nice but it does have its drawbacks.
pickyeagersub
 
 Age: 19
 Tuchanka, New York