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Daddy Dom looking for his Baby
"GirlDaddy/little girl does not refer to the ages, real or pretend, of
the participants. Nor does it imply closet desires. It refers to the
environment that two people have created. A Daddy Dom is so named
because of the qualities he possesses and the service he provides. So,
what are these qualities? What is a Daddy Dom? A Daddy Dom wants to be
the center of your universe. He wants to be able to provide for your
every need and care. But more than that he wants to be able to shape
and mold you to the image he thinks you should become. He sees in you
someone who, in his mind, can achieve a much higher, much greater
status. He believes more in you than you believe in yourself. What he
wants in return is to be able to bask in his image of you, the image he
has created. How does he achieve his goals? Through love, respect, and
discipline. His love for his little girl goes without saying. He
accepts every part of her and works to emphasize the good while
improving the bad. He loves her as much for who she is as for who she
will become with his guidance. It is this love that allows him to train
her. He could not invest so much of himself in someone he did not love
completely. This love would not be possible without respect. A Daddy
Dom needs to feel great pride in his possession. He needs to know she
can hold her own in the outside world and still submit to him. He holds
the greatest respect for the gift she has given him and takes great
pains to increase it's value. It is extremely important to him to know
she can be with any man and she chooses to be with him. He knows that
this makes discipline a priority in their lives, more important than in
some other D/s relationships. In order for the little girl to really
trust she must know he means what he says. He must constantly deepen
her respect for him. If he does not enforce discipline, this respect
becomes a tenuous thing. If his submissive finds that she can
manipulate him out of punishing her, she begins to lose respect and the
ability to empower becomes impeded. He needs to empower her as much as
he wants to possess her and it becomes increasingly difficult to be
possessed by someone you do not respect. The discipline is also
important when it comes to her protection, both from those outside the
relationship and those within. He is the one who makes the decisions
about how she will relate to the world in general and his discipline
ensures that she follows these rules. I think most Doms have a bit of
the Daddy in them, taking on the role of male authority figure in their
submissive's life and using their power to enrich that life.
Daddy/little girl verbalizes that feeling, and adds a dimension of
warmth, caring, and ritual that it's participants crave."
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