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Im a natural submissive and have been my whole life honoring you, serving you, and dedicating myself to your pleasure is hard-wired into the very core of my being. I will never try to top from the bottom or turn the tables on you (unless that is what you want). Im experienced but not completely broken or domesticated, and obedient but not boring, always respectful but also creative and challenging in my own way.
Im open to most activities, but I wont come to you with some laundry list of fetishes or desires that I expect you to fulfill. As a true submissive, I am an empty vessel and will find natural fulfillment pering (or enduring) according to your needs, whims, and desires. That which brings you pleasure will bring me pleasure that which stimulates you will become my fetish. For me, submission is a very psychological act, and I dont have any particular attachment to props or scenes I dont require much artifice or contrivance to put me in sub space--Im already there. I wont need you to wrap yourself in PVC or wear six-inch heels to catalyze my submissive nature even if you wear jeans and a t-shirt, I will still very much be your slave.
That said, its not as if I have no ideas of my own. Im capable of being very creative, even as a sub. I do have some favorite activities, Hypnosis, chastity, and anal training being foremost among them. I also have some limits I dont enjoy playing with other subs or in public. I prefer the intensity of a one-on-one dynamic. I have a medium tolerance for pain, but Im willing to work on it. In person, my submission is complete over email or the phone, Im a bit more circumspect but can be prevailed upon.
In my day-to-day life, Im very successful and well-grounded, confident and very independent. Im kind and generous and take care of the people in my life. I have many interests beyond the kinky music, art, literature, technology. This is by way of saying that, yes, I can hold intelligent conversations on other matters besides Ds, and would love to find a woman who appreciates this and can do the same.
My Ideal Person I seek a woman who is dominant or is looking to explore her dominant side. Im drawn to confident, assertive, whip-smart women who understand that power exchange is just as much a state of mind as it is a physical activity. Every woman is different theres no single ula Im looking for you to match. Im open to all scenarios and ground-rules, and I will always respect your limits and needs. Be honest, forthright, clear, and most of all be real, and I will respond. With me, you wont have to be anyone other than who you really are.
My dream, though, is to find a woman with whom I can share the abundance of my life, someone with whom I can connect with on many levels, in addition to a Ds dynamic. Someone who can respect me as a person, engage with me intellectually, spiritually, romantically, who can live life with me as a friend and mate, and then, when doors are closed, make me her slave whenever she wants. I realize this is asking a lot it takes an extraordinary amount of confidence and poise to switch between both worlds, to both exchange and share power and keep both dynamics real. If such a relationship is also what you seek, then contact me.
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I have spent the past decades, as many, trying to figure out who I am. My journey has taken me through the happiest of days, complete despair, numbing fear, grand accomplishment. I have wrestled with the dichotomy of who I am and who I think i should be.
I am a submissive male.
This is not how I think I should be. I am tall and strong. I am a man. I am smart and fun to be around. I do not allow others to hold power over me easily. Those who know me superficially would classify me as an alpha male. Classic high school football jock. But this is not me.
I am a submissive male.
This life found me when I was young, perhaps 15 years old. The term bondage was all I knew until some guidance found me and directed my path.
Power play. Pinning girls down. Pulling their hair. Spanking them. The excitement of having all of the control was fun. I crossed paths with many who enjoyed me in a dominant romantic role. But this is not me.
I am a submissive male.
I continue down my path, alone. I refuse to settle for a vanilla relationship for it will only end in disaster as it always has. This is not a game for me. My needs are largely simple and minutely complex.
My search continues, for I know who I am. |
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| Age: 30 |
| Los angeles,
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