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Pan Female Switch, 43,  Seaforth, Canada
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You MAY refer to me as Miss Ruby Grimm

Without the who is viewing me part i cant see lurkers so If you want my attention, reach out and grab it.

If you want to talk to me, write to me, yes, I bite occasionally, but not for starting a conversation.

I have recently dabbled in key holding as well as my feminization training and lifestyle control programs.
I LOVE that thought of control.

I have been dabbling in hypnosis for a bit now, and I am finding that VERY fun.

To answer the stupid question before it comes. YES I AM FEMALE...seriously asking me to prove it will not get you a look in my pants, sorry im way too much of a bitch for that.

I sooo need more space for pics on here, could barely touch the tip of the boot-shoe shoot....this suckles

Been from KW, to Burlington(toronto), to london, back to KW and now i live in west perth county. (sorta near stratford and london)

I have a massive fascination for boots, shoes(pretty much anything with heels), corset, and fetwear, and of course I have a definite lack of self control when shopping....but thats not always a bad thing.











Last Online:


 Female Switch



 5' 11"

 180 lbs






Actively Seeking:

Submissive Transgender

Submissive Female

Submissive Male

Switch Women

Switch Men

Sub/Sub Couples

Femdom Couples

Male-Dom Couples

Online Romance

A Poly Household

 Lives For:






 Domestic Service


 Mental Bondage

 Rubber Fetish


 Horror Movies




 Fine Dining

 Flea Markets

 Garage Sales


 Renaissance Faires

 Scuba Diving

 Breast Play



 Fire Play





 Masks (On Partner)

 Masks (Wearing)


 Plastic Wrap

 Role Playing

 Vacuum Stimulation



 Female Supremacy

 Goth Lifestyle

 Lifestyle BDSM

 Alternative Music

 Rock Music


 Amusement Parks

 Bar Hopping

 Coffee Shops


 Musical Theater





 Anal Play

 Body Worship

 Canes and Crops

 Electrical Play

 Local BDSM Community


 Hair Pulling

 Massage (Getting)

 Obedience Training

 Orgasm Denial

 Outdoor Bondage

 Pony/Puppy Roleplay

 Sensory Deprivation



 Speech Restrictions




 Wax play

 Arcade Games

 Board Games


 Romance Novels

 Science Fiction

 TV Sports

 Heavy Metal Music


 Bird Watching





 Horseback Riding




 Foot Worship

 Knife Play


 Public Play



 Card Games

 Comedy Shows

 Historical Shows


 Online Chatrooms


 Web Surfing

 Curious About:

 Art Galleries



 Going to the Opera




 Martial Arts


 Skate Boarding




 Wind Surfing





 Medical Play

 Needle Play

 Maid/Butler Service

 Puzzle Games

 Role Playing Games

 Simulation Games

 True Crime





 Ultimate Frisbee


 Corner Time

 Eye Contact Restrictions

 Massage (Giving)

 Online RPGs

 TV News

 Alternative Medicine


 Candle Making




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Journal Entries:
1/17/2018 9:47:39 AM
SO, Anyone out there who has some tight and sexy latex fetwear who would like to do a shoot or video and get up to no good with me?....if you are close enough i'm sure we can arrange something, i will even provide the photographer.

1/15/2018 11:03:23 AM
ok so, i need to find a way to get some awesome latex, some bondage, and do a shoot, and umm, you know whatever happens afterwards REALLY need

1/11/2018 11:08:34 AM

So, i am currently in the middle of a latex obsession, desperately want to have some fun with and do a shoot in(yes sometimes fun and work gets a little blurry), sooooo many fun ideas filling my brain. But alas no latex.... i can wish all i want but wihout latex and location/situation, it wont happen and i will be wihout and nobody will ever get to see all the crazy chaotic messedup fun we had.

BAH!!!....seriously, I am going full on subbie whore over this, so not used to losing this much control over myself......aaahhhhhh

1/9/2018 9:33:14 AM
So ow that I am healed up, I am hoping to set up some photoshoots, could use a nice pile of latex, etc. for the pics though.  Even a total enclosure session type thing, or super bondage would be awesome.  Definitely on a "ooooohhhh that latex looks awesome, me want" type of kick right now though.

10/11/2017 2:11:27 PM
So any submissive types looking to help a slightly broken(foot) switch and a Domme get things done? Manual labor is not hugely possible for me right now, and I would be very appreciative.

11/7/2016 4:03:16 AM
Some of you have been asking that I do more shoots, well I am currently low on new outfits for new shoots, so I have posted my amazon wishlists so that if people want to see me in certain things, they can feel free to help me rebuild my new photoshoot wardrobe. I'm not saying people NEED to help, but hey, if you are feeling generous and want to see something at least it is out there.
Also, Don't forget, if you send me something from my wishlist, there will be pics of me wearing it, bondage gear, collars, clothes, etc...

1/12/2014 5:44:19 PM

Ok, i have to admit it finally.  Both my inner Bitch and inner Whore have been repressed lately, but as i heal they sure seem to be getting much potential fun.....

12/21/2013 9:42:40 AM

First thing I have to say is that I left the local community because of all of the childish and dangerous behavior, and the fact that I don't want any part of it.  As such the recent attacks by people hunting me down online and attempting to make me feel bad about myself will not work, I have so much in my life that I don't need to focus on any of you or what you choose to do with the excess time you seem to have to harrass others.


Secondly, i am in a VERY complex relationship, and in addition to that I am currently recovering from surgery and thusly I am not looking for play partners.  The one thing I may consider is a service submissive/slave to assist while i work on getting back on my feet.

I am always looking fro friends but please keep in mind i am not on here all the time and although I will do my best to respond to emails I have higher priorities with my recovery than simply lying here answering patience please.

12/6/2013 11:03:06 AM

I can tell I have been housebound for too long when i start thinking about and thinking "hey, i kinda miss it, well except for the BS, the lying, the backfighting, the pretentious assholes, .........."

12/24/2012 10:36:01 AM

Feeling bitchy and unproductive today....It seems to be a bananas, pudding, and movies kinda day, but the laundry isn't gonna do itself.

OK so once laundry is started, i get my snacks, and perv fetwear online.

10/15/2012 2:28:57 PM

Getting a growing fascination with latex, i want a hood so bad, but the quality vs. price thing seems to be a bitch, but god it is sooooo sexy and would make for some awesome pics in my collective works

10/8/2012 12:37:40 PM

Ok so I have a ton of new leather pics, but no more space to post on here....any suggestions?


9/17/2012 3:53:54 PM

On the Fetish Modelling side of things, I take requests, and provided sizing is correct, if sent clothes, fetwear, shoes, etc, I will have pics taken and sent to whoever makes the request and sends the gift.

You want to see me in it, or see a shot?, you can have it!

9/17/2012 3:38:05 PM

I am seriously doing way too much work for a princess...this hasta change.


BTW folks, I have a TON of dominants in my life, you can look all you want but there is no interest on my side......unless of course any of you dominants want to pamper me with gifts, worship my boots/shoes, or clean for me...then, we can talk.


9/14/2012 1:29:37 PM

Seriously this is funny seeing sooo many straight male dominants check my profile lately that just run away screaming.

9/10/2012 3:20:17 PM

Back to thinking it may be time to start looking for an "assistant"

edit-april 12...still looking

9/5/2012 11:00:39 AM

re-defining the term "bad day" in amazing fashion

8/17/2012 4:05:46 PM

And that is why people need to read profiles, slowly and carefully before contacting saves you the trouble of blocking me because you read something you don't like, so in a sense....reading and using your brain, can save you from acting like a huge assbutt(not always, but i think it would help...seriously).

8/16/2012 11:31:29 AM

Seriously temped to find a sub who can dress in full leather or latex and get used in a public shoot next week.

8/13/2012 11:09:06 AM

I am sooooo sorry for everyone if i fail to write back, lately with things being a busy busy summer i am finding myself a little scatterbrained and spread kinda thin so please bear with me, and if you are waiting for a reply and haven't gotten it, feel free to get ahold of me again and I will try harder.


8/12/2012 10:21:55 AM

The concept of getting dressed up in fetwear and doing a photoshoot around my tiny little hometown is just a little too appealing, this is gonna be so fun

8/5/2012 10:38:05 AM

seriously craving a new tattoo or piercing today....weird :)

7/29/2012 9:20:20 AM

Ok for a fetish/bdsm model, I am SERIOUSLY lacking in fetwear somehow.....oddly enuff if the prep for last nights party and photoshoot is to be believed i am seriously lacking in fetwear even for someone just starting the hell am i running so low on suck simple stuff??

Anybody wanna take me shopping???

7/14/2012 9:10:46 PM

Had tons of fun twittering pics of playtime, it was awesome

6/9/2012 11:46:12 AM


6/9/2012 11:43:13 AM

I need someone to help me organize my boots and fetwear ...gotta find me a subby bitch or bootslave!!

6/9/2012 11:37:04 AM

Damn!!!, I ran out of picture space here and barely got into the shoe/boot photoshoot pics...grrr...aarggg

4/30/2012 3:32:38 PM

"When people judge you,it's because they have a problem with themselves that they are struggling with" new fav quote.

4/8/2012 1:14:46 PM

please feel free to contact me with any questions about my modelling profiles or upcoming photoshoots.


3/26/2012 3:50:47 PM

Throwing around ideas for a new photoshoot, "bondage bride" is going to be soooo much fun!!!!!  I am reeeeeely excited.

3/21/2012 4:07:15 PM

Anybody out there interested in working on photoshoots in  the near future?, photographers, makeup artists, etc.?

3/21/2012 4:06:07 PM

2012 LGBT Census - Add Your Voice, Be Heard


3/20/2012 8:23:19 PM

Totally loving the nice keen to get some photoshoots done.

3/6/2012 8:16:21 PM

I dunno if it is the upcoming party this sat. getting me all excited and bouncy or what but I'm feeling very evil and manipulative lately....still think i need a handy dandy bitchboy.

2/5/2012 8:21:38 AM

As the party get closer the more excited I get...getting very hard to wait to see everyone again and have some fun...this is gonna be a loooong week of anticipation.


1/20/2012 7:12:19 AM

Need to find more littles in this area, or perhaps in the hamilton area...seriously feeling alone lately.

1/14/2012 12:39:00 PM

Missing the party tonight, which sucks, but i really should get lots of stuff done and planned before the next one comes up at the end of the month

11/21/2011 6:44:49 PM

The more I see the holidays approaching, the more I see reasons to need an "assistant"....especially after seeing the crowds and the it lazy of me?


11/14/2011 3:26:33 PM

For those who missed the chance to serve myself and the girls for our "night  in", I will be posting earlier for the next time so that anyone looking to come and serve a room full of girls can sign up.

Thanks for all the feedback everyone!


11/10/2011 7:25:22 AM

Having a bunch of friends over for some drinking, movies, and hot tub.....wondering if there is anyone out there who would want to serve 8-10 females for the evening.

11/7/2011 3:29:32 PM

After all the years in varying levels in the I finally experienced fireplay.  Well to be honest I had experienced it at KNANO on my arm....but that was really just a test run, today was different...and I have to say, it was different from any other experience I have had.

The more I learn during this chapter of my life, the more I find that I had been missing out. 

There is a ton of different directions things may go in the future, but I am learning to trust things, whatever comes my way whether it be something new, something familiar, or something that I never even knew existed.

New experiences, new changes, new's all life.

9/27/2011 8:13:58 PM

So yeah....things are definitely looking like we are going to have to find a sub.

9/25/2011 8:56:47 PM

Seriously lookin like i am gonna need to find someone that can be my handy dandy bitchboy.

9/3/2011 1:28:37 PM

Ok seriously grrrr....tried to uplad new pic...not working...grrr...arrggg

9/1/2011 5:03:03 PM

Yay for finding my perfect pvc maids outfit an amazing price no to find he perfect gag, hood, and to pick up all the other "must have's" I found...yummy yummy evil stuff

8/29/2011 11:52:44 AM

Starting to figure some stuff out....falling can be preventing for the most part by remembering one thing....I'm The Fuckin Princess. If I remember this, and a few other things work out, life will be better.

8/27/2011 9:44:49 PM

A bunch of the KW kinksters do a fun night out at club ren 1-2 times a month for the thursday show, anybody who is in the area please feel free to come on out and join us.

8/19/2011 12:25:13 PM

Currently looking for photographers who need models, and are willing to put up with my inexperience, and makeup artists, or someone who may want to help in that aspect would be appreciated too.


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