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PrincesaAshley

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New York Lady Seeking...

Why hello there internet person! Welcome to my humble profile. I wrote this so people can get a glimpse into who I am as a person. Please read the whole profile before contacting, it might answer some questions you have about me and save us a lot of time. Plus, if you really find me so interesting and think you might want something with me, show me by putting in a little effort and reading my profile. Side note; my main profile on collar me is Usako, this is my domme profile to help attract the subby bois. ;) More info about me, journal entries and more pictures can be found on that account.

Grounds Rules

Before you read further, I'd let to set a few ground rules. First, I'm a switch. I like both sides of the flogger. I can be both domme or submissive. That does not mean I am looking for another switch. I am looking for anyone who can make me happy; be it a switch, a dom/me or a sub. If you want more details, contact me. Second, I hate to be called ma'am. You can refer to me by my username or Princess if you're so hard pressed to use a title. I like other terms but for now, as we get to know each other it's not dreadfully important. Third, be polite. Sending me mail about your wank off fantasies is rude and it ends up deleted. Sending rude, offensive, insulting mail also gets deleted. We're all adults and we should act like it.

About Me

I'm a 23 year old native New Yorker. I go to college, I live at home and have three wonderful pets; two cats and a dog. I enjoy going to movies, listening to music, museums, TV and general fun things. I am a huge anime and manga fan as well as a lover of video games. I am not a bitchy domme, as you can see so far, I have a generally nice attitude. Can I be a bitch? Sure, if someone pisses me off or if the situation calls for it (like some sort of role play) but other than I'm a normal person. I do not have a self entitlement attitude, I am not a princess diva bitch looking for a guy with no self worth to spoil me.

What I Want

So then what do I want? Currently, I'm looking to learn. I'm looking to make friends, to chat, to hang out and enjoy life. I am looking for play partners or people who can teach me more about BDSM. Am I looking for long term? Of course. If there is a connection with someone then long term is a total possibility! I want to explore and am looking for people to explore with, on a road that hopefully leads to a happy ending.

What I Don't Want

Sex. I don't want someone who is solely looking to hook up and have sex. I do enjoy sex and have nothing against having sex with the right person. But I don't want someone who is looking for a fling with spankings or handcuffs. Long distance stuff is also a no. It doesn't work out, sorry. I have no interest in having a cyber or cam dom/slave. I am totally down with being friends with anyone, but that's as far as it goes. Unless you like visiting a lot or relocating, don't get your hopes up if you're not in NYC or close by. Those are my major don't wants, the rest I can list later.

INTERESTS

I like spankings, cross dressing, foot worship and massages. I'm in the process of learning so my interests grow more and more every day. Could be needle play, could be bathroom use control, could be treating you like a dog.
I don't like the term slave. I want someone who can be submissive to me, yes. But I don't want someone who lets others walk over them. I want someone who, if I say so, has no issues walking beside me and doesn't always feel he can only walk behind me. Get it? Hope so.

MUSTS

* No Black males. Sorry but I'm not sexually attracted to you.
* LOCAL! I'm in NYC Manhattan so unless you can travel or want to relocate you better be close to me (walking, car, train, bus) before contacting me.
* SINGLE! If you want a relationship with me this is a must.
* Financially stable. Being able to take me out and have fun is a huge plus.
* No smoking or drugs! These things are an instant rejection.
* You must have a picture. Either in your profile or to send to me.

BONUSES

* Living alone. I do not have my own place but if you do then that's a big up. It makes things easier.
* Having a car. Just makes life easier, especially so a sub can drive me around.
* Being available. I hate waiting, I ideally need someone who will be available.
* Not having kids. Sorry but little children get in the way. They take up your time and money and energy.


BIG BIG BIG NO NOS

* Female supremacy is not my thing, at all. Be in awe of me because of my personality, not because I have a vagina.
* Race play. No, never, ever. Once again, be in awe of me because of who I am, not the color of my skin.
* Scat. Just, never. Never, ever.
* If I think of any others, I'll add them. lol



ALL RUDE MESSAGES WILL BE DELETED SO DON'T WASTE YOUR TIME TYPING ONE UP!!

6/6/2009 5:01:10 PM
I could really use a drink and foot massage.
2/9/2009 9:25:47 AM
I'm looking for real and true friends. I've realized nothing good can come out of anything without strong ground work. Without a connection, there is no reason to go further with play or a relationship.
Harleysliljo
 
 Age: 24
 Over There, Andorra