If we have been communicating or have communicated in the past, then by all means I would like to hear back from you.

Other than that I have no interest besides for friendship at this point.

I'm currently communicating with several people, and I am also working with a few more.

My hands and my schedule are simply too full at this time for me to take on anyone else.

It would not be fair to you, or to the ladies currently under consideration.  

Thank you very much for viewing my profile, and if it's simply friendship you're seeking I am still available for that.

If things change and my schedule becomes less hectic than it is now, I will let everyone know.

Thanks Again.

PrinceImriel

So, a recent exchange of e-mails has prompted me to write this little note.

I am a person that will always challenge you and you're way of thinking.  Why?  Because I wish you to think.  If something I say offends, you and hurts you the appropriate response, is I'm hurt and offended by that.

The inappropriate response is a full out barrage of insults and attacks....  

Often people say things, with out thinking that you will be offended.  It happens to me and when it happens I do exactly that.  Let the person know that what was said offended me.  I might see it as an attack, but in life I've often found that people don't mean to attack other peoples positions.... they're simply defending their own. 

I have no problem with agreeing to disagree. Yet,  I will with certainty, continue to challenge and debate with you for as long as you're willing.

What I will not do is let something as trivial as a difference in opinion cause me to hate or carry ill feelings for another person.

Doing so is simply letting someone live free inside your head with out paying rent.

Also being in this scene, there is no room for anger.....

Fear, lust, pain, trust, sorrow, and love.... every other emotion is welcome and will be explored in full. 

Anger needs to be checked at the door.

There seems to be a lot of different trains of thought on what it is to be a dominant.

Well first off I feel that inside every submissive is an incredible free spirit just dying to emerge.  Each free spirit is a different entity.  For some it's to be care free, not worry about the every day or what people think.

For others it's a desire to dress up sexy, to be ogled and desired.

Others yet it's to experience complete sexual abandonment.

Or it could be to be a little Daddy's girl.

Along the way, you will find yourself in a place that is come to be referred to as sub space.

A place where all your senses are heightened to levels you'd not imagined possible.  I've seen women orgasm and weep tears of joy as their bodies quivered uncontrollably.

I've seen the release of tension, worries, fears and cares that a good session can bring to a sub.

My desire is to bring out that hidden spirit, to cultivate it, nurture and guide it.  To give it the strength and confidence it needs to exist, knowing that it has a strong guide who will control it, so she need not.

In turn, of course you will serve me, not because you feel you are unworthy of anything more, but because you know that I am worthy.  I've earned your respect, your trust and your confidence.

You will also know that in serving me you are all you ever could be, and will to continue to grow and flourish in that servitude.

Now this is my idea of what a Dominant should be. 

The tools and methods any Dominant uses to get you there are irrelevant.  I don't think there should be any kind of training manual, yet there are some very good guide lines that people have set out over the years, that should be considered, weighed and used where it fits the individuals.

I don't think any one of us Dominants are cookie cutters, except perhaps for the wannabees who simply picked up a book and decided that's what they'll do.

What ever your search... I do hope that you as a submissive do choose wisely, who you will allow to mentor and guide you, and who is truly worthy of your submission.

Thank you for reading my thoughts on this.

Just to clarify, I am very happy with my life.  I'm single and enjoying every minute of life every day!  Life is absolutely fucking amazing and each and every day is full of new possibilities and adventures. 

So why am I here, well simply because I often feel like Clark fucking Kent.  The same reason you're here.  You know that you're not like other people.  There are things that set you apart that most people would never understand. 

Yes I meet nice little vanilla girls all the time, and I even take them home sometimes, most don't even notice the hooks in the ceiling.... Lol! 

I would never be interested in a normal relationship. I've tried it twice.  Once for five years and once for 17 years.  I would rather be single.... thank you very much.

Yet if I do find what I'm looking for, well who knows.... the world is full of endless possibilities and new adventures for the adventurous!  

I really don't like being a negative person, and for the most part my experiences on here have been very positive, People in the community seem to be far better mannered  then any other site I've been on in my life.  I tried normal site's 8 years ago when I first became single, yet after horrible experiences I found that it was a complete waste of time.

Here I've found people very polite, they generally answer e-mails, even if it's with a polite no thank you and good luck in your search.   I have to say that it's refreshing and appreciated, and I certainly don't mind if anyone thinks that I'm not what's right for them.

I know I'm amazing, and I know I'm capable of wonderful results with the right person, yet if the chemistry is not there and I don't have your complete faith and trust, I'm not capable of achieving what I want for either of us....

Now for my little pet peeve......

Subs looking for a Dom to be faithful to them right off the start with out proving themselves.....

Who is in control here?

I'm to wait on you to have sex?  I have to wait till you decide you can see me?  Yea... no, simply not happening...

First off, I'm not here because I have trouble getting laid, I'm not some geek that can't find a girl, so if I spank her I might just get some head.... Lol!  I have no problem meeting women, and have been enjoying a very active sex life for the last 8 years.   I'm devilishly charming and have been talking girls out of their panties for a very long time and I'm damn good at it.... Lol!  

For quite some time, I was very happy and would never ever consider a relationship again, as normal relationships just simply don't work for me.  What BDSM does is provide the foundation for the type of relationship that I would consider, yet I've already had several experiences with women who talk the talk, yet constantly try to top from the bottom.... So, trust me I will not commit to anyone until they darn well prove themselves completely.

I am a man of my word, and if that day comes and I do find and place a girl under contract,  I will darn well never play with out her involved.  Period!  My word is my bond, and just the fact that I'm writing this should tell you how honest I am.  

Every other guy, will tell you anything you want to hear and then just do what ever the hell they wish.  I'm not that guy.  I will tell it to you straight, and if you are the Lady for me, and prove to me that you can be everything, we both wish, then you will have the best man you could ever dream of.... That simple.

Until then, well you're under probation.

That said, I'm not about double standards.

Good luck to everyone on their journey!

OK! I just had to laugh and refrain myself from from sending off a note and dash someone's illusions.  If you are living at home with your parents, you are simply not dominant.   If you have excuses for doing so, it only makes it worse!  I was living on my own at 17, simply because I would not live under the rules set for me, not that they were horrible, just I felt an overwhelming need to march to the tune of my own drummer.

So I made a trip north bound leather today to add to my growing arsenal and decided to pop in across the street to add to my instruments of pleasure, since I try to maintain a balance between the two.  I had something specific in mind, and the very courteous and friendly staff were most helpful in finding it.

Just one thing though Miss, I said, do you have it in any colour besides pink?  It doesn't quite fit my image!  

Well they found me another colour, and I'm looking forward to experiment with both my new purchases..... LOL!

Please note when corresponding with me,  I do not wish to be called Sir or Master.  I am not some online geek playing some online dungeons and dragons game.  I am the real thing and I have no wish to be called anything but by my name until I've shown you that I am indeed worthy of those titles.  

To be called so with out you knowing me, in my mind, just diminishes who I am, as people tend to hand them out as freely as the Vanilla crowd hands out monikers like dear, or love or sweet heart.

I like to think and consider myself the real deal, Yet I only treasure such sentiments, after I know I have indeed earned them.  

If you do choose to continue your journey under my guidance and nurturing,  only then will I expect you to call me by those titles.  

As for me calling you pet or slave or anything but your screen name or real name (if you choose to share it), I won't until you have earned the right to be called so, Just as I in turn feel that It's something I must earn as well.  

For all of those engaging in this practice that see nothing wrong with it, I have nothing against it, just expressing how I feel about it.

Good luck to all of you on your own personal journeys of self exploration.