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Hello,
I am Derrick. The basics about me you have read in the profile selections. Beyond that is hard to actually describe in a single person monologue on a screen. I can tell you all about what I like or don't like as far as food, music, politics, religion, art, recreation and such, yet that only gives you a view of my tastes in such matters. I do not believe that gives you a true idea or sense of who I am as the person inside. Therein lies the crux of this, trust and the desire to see beyond the surface. What foods you like, music you like, your politics and such isn't why I will or won't like you. Those things I will enjoy finding out about you as we journey down that path.
So what is it that matters to be in the beginning? I have distilled it down to these five basics the woman I want must have; The ability to trust, a deep level of self awareness, self acceptance, she must have the innate desire to grow and I must feel comfortable with her.. If I may; I trust unless given sufficient reason to not trust. I do not believe in the "trust no one and force them to build it" POV. The woman I am with must have looked at, examined and accepted what she sees about herself. Be it right, wrong, good, bad, freaky, depraved, gloriously twisted and all, she must know and accept these things about herself. She must want to grow, as a person, to reach beyond the known and into the unknown, to grow, mentally, emotionally, and spiritually. Lastly, she and I must be comfortable with each other. To be able to sit with and NOT have to do or say anything is at times, beautiful. Beyond that, I want to know her, and have her know me, even the parts I may not like.
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