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Currently in a happy LTR with a subby woman. Friends only at this point for any ladies wanting to talk to me. :)
4/26/2009 10:24:28 AM
My Domination style: a reflection.

This is mainly written for me to share with others the way in which I perform my role as a Dom/Master, the things which bring me the most pleasure when with a sub/slave/pet.

I enjoy being called Master, Sir, or other forms of verbal submission. I will make you beg for my touch, for my kiss. When you say please, what I want to hear is what you're asking for. Please, sir is not enough. Please, sir, kiss me is about right. And, if I don't think you deserve it, I won't give you what you ask for.

I will spank you. For me there are 2 kinds of spanking. There's the playful swats I give you to make your ass red or your thighs color while I'm doing whatever I want to you. These are meant to exert my control, showing you that even if you are getting pleasure from my use of you, I am still in control. The other is for punishment. These are harsher, and will be more likely to be done with a belt or riding crop. These are meant to hurt. I will (and have before) take my partner, pulled off my belt, and bent her over at the waist to lay swift vengeance upon her ass for being bratty.

I will push you against the wall, pull your hair, tug on your collar, wrap my finger around your neck (front or back) to control you. I will expose your neck for biting, I will hold you still while I kiss you or tease your lips. I will make you feel helpless and overpowered as my hands explore you at their leisure.

You will submit.

I will almost never gag you, because your screams, moans, gasps, begging voice, pleading, and other noises are what drive my lust.

I will bite you. On your neck. On your nipples. On your inner thigh. Wherever I want. Some of these will be nips, some wil be rough.

I will do as I will with your breasts. I will tug, suck, lick, bite, caress, and otherwise adore them.

I will put you on your knees. I will tell you to wear striped socks, the higher the better. I will take your picture.

What will you do?


12/23/2008 11:54:37 AM
Views on D/s           

I view D/s relationships the same way I view many others, dependent on the people involved. The right Dom needs the right sub in order to be fulfilled, and the submissive needs a Dominant that best meets her own desires. If a sub seeks a monogamous, bedroom only, relationship with (say) no blindfolding or waxplay and the Dom seeks a polyamorous, 24/7, with loads of waxplay...well, then that's not going to be a good, long term relationship. :P Know what you want, and know what your partner wants. If you know these things then you can avoid heartache down the road.         

On being a Master         

A Master is bound to his slave when he holds the leash, that leash ties them together, and connects them. A Master should seek to guide his slave, building her up, making her stronger. There is strength in her submission, though some may not see it. To admit to yourself and to another your desire to be collared, to be owned, there is strength in that admission. Better to face that part of yourself and admit to it then to be forever unfullfilled.

A Master is giving his slave what she wants and needs as much as a slave is giving her Master what he craves. A slave seeks to be dominated, each in their own way. The Master provides this to her, he gives her pleasure in his ownership. In this way he serves her needs. The slave gives to her Master herself, her loyalty and obediance. She says, through submission "Use me, make me yours, make me worthy." And in doing so the Master gives her pleasure. In the process, the Master recieves pleasure in turn.

When a slave reaches the actualization of her own dreams, in the bedroom and out of it, a Master should be proud of his slave, and reward her. When a slave expresses self doubt, or debases herself in a way that does not bring pleasure to the Master, He should correct this behavior and guide her. His strength is hers, and his guiding hand must place her feet back on the path of actualization.
MzTroublee
 
 Age: 29
 Brookfield, Wisconsin