I'm a SWM, living in Chicago who is on a mission to find the slightly alpha-female of my dreams.

I'm cool, fun, smart, loyal, dedicated and sincere. I like the way I look. I'm in good shape, not overweight, started back at the gym after several lazy months.

I want it all! I want a woman who is more than just a kink, fetish, bdsm enthusiast. Those interests are wonderful and I want someone like-minded, but I also want to know the rest of the person. In other words...I want a woman who I'd hangout with and desire a relationship with even if we eliminated the power exchanges.

But...I know myself well enough to know that my relationships are best when the woman is at least slightly dominant. I enjoy being wrapped around the right woman's finger.

You should be smart, fun, trustworthy, attractive, have some life experience (I'm just over 40, prefer someone mid-thirties to mid-forties) and wnat more that just a play partner.

I'm just getting this profile up...I'll expand on it soon.