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I am seeking a domestic slave. You must be FEMALE, obedient, clean, attractive and physically fit. You should enjoy serving a kind but firm Master. You must be willing to relocate to my home(s).
I will provide rules and structure. I will teach you my expectations and how I wish to be served. I will cherish and care for you. I hope that I will come to love you. In return for your obedience I will show you that you can trust me. I will return your laziness or attempt to manipulate me with discipline. I will reward your desire to please me. I will never strike you in anger. Never!
If I cannot do these thing, cannot tame you then it is my fault, not yours. It means that I am not enough of a master. It does not mean you are not enough of a slave. I like the analogy of driving a car. If I run my Ferrari off the road, I am the driver. It is not the fault of the car. If I can't handle a Ferrari then I should be driving something a little easier to handle like a Ford Focus. (I drive a 350Z roadster :-) )
I have a sadistic side. I may give you pain merely because it pleases me to do so. I would own your body. I would use it as I pleased. I might paddle you till you lay crying at my feet, then gently wipe away your tears. This is my nature.
I am experienced and I know what I am not as well as what I am. I have learned that within the "lifestyle" there is a huge diversity of wants and needs. I understand that I am not going to "match up" or "click" with the vast majority of submissives. No one can be everything to everyone. I have no desire to drink your blood, eat your flesh, punch your face or to show you what a worthless, stupid cunt you are. If you are mentally unstable or physically unfit, it just isn't going to work. If your heart is jealous or black. If you can never trust again. If you cannot laugh or feel joy or love then I am not the master for you.
Obviously, none of us are just a collection of kinks. I do not expect that yours will exactly match mine. Our limits may well differ. As a master, I understand that in the beginning, we negotiate. I may be a master but until you have submitted, I am not YOUR master.
I believe that an M/s relationship is not about equality. It is about balance. It means finding the one who completes you. I think most everyone on CM would agree that's not an easy task.
The idea of being a "Daddy" appeals to me although, honestly, I have not experimented with this side of my personality to a very large extent. If you are seeking a Daddy type, we will see where that goes.
I expect you to serve me 24/7/365. However, I lead a vanilla life too. I have family, friends and activities which are completely outside the D/s world. You must be capable of living in both worlds.
About me:
First, I am for real. I am not here to find kinky sex or a play partner (although I love kinky sex :-) ) All relationship, especially D/s must be based on trust or they will fail. It will do me no good to lie to you here because there would be no foundation for a relationship. You would not be able to trust me and rightly so. (I also expect you to be honest with me)
I am intelligent with a good sense of humor. I believe that a happy slave is a playful slave.
I am a single, successful man with two homes and a company which I run. I lead a busy life. I work hard. What I want is to come home to a slave who wishes to pamper me after a tough day. One who will find happiness kneeling at my feet with my hand stroking her hair. One who enjoys traveling, experimenting, meeting new people, trying new things.
I split my time between a home in St. Pete, Fl (South Pasadena) where I travel for R&R and a secluded, rural home in Eastern Pa where I run my business (and my dungeon :-) ). You should be willing to travel between these locations.
I am willing and able to provide all of the basic needs of a slave who will serve me well. She will be fed, clothed, etc. I may allow her to work outside the home if it does not interfere with her service to me.
Distance will not be a problem. Obviously, relocation is necessary anyway and I would bring you to me. I will care for all of your needs. However, while I realize that money may be an issue for you, I will never send you money. Don't ask.
Experience is not an issue. I truly would prefer a "blank canvas" that I can paint in the colors I choose.
Thank you for reading all of this. If you have, put "balance" in your message to me. It tells me a lot about your character that you have made the effort to read my entire profile. Best wishes in finding the one who will bring balance and love into your life. Above all else, to yourself be true.
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