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I am seeking a specific woman interested in entering into a Dom/Sub relationship. There is a higher level to experience and I am seeking someone that understands what I am talking about. What we create will become the best secret you will have kept in your life. If you can't keep this between us then it is better we never cross into this world together. I am not seeking to get married, live together, or support anyone. This would strictly be a Dom/Sub relationship as my life presently will not allow for more. I am a master's degree educated, well employed, financially secure, tall, handsome and confident black male that has chosen to not walk the traditional path. I seek a submissive that also has her life together and has an understanding of the time constraints that a demanding career can have on a perso. I am not looking for someone to use or abuse. That does not represent the truth about this lifestyle in my opinion. I am Very educated and compassionate about people, the planet and about living and experiencing the magic moments of living. I am very creative and love to pleasure my mate in every way. I am spiritually in tune to my partner and find eye contact and energy exchange magical. I love the use of language as it can be as erotic as anything else. What you say to me can be more sexy than anything you can do to me. I am big on touch. I am into tantric principles of how to heighten experiences by really becoming in tune with one another. I am attracted most to plus-sized women. I would love to find someone that is my complete physical opposite but very much my mental equal. I love older women, especially ones with an open mind, deep passion, spiritual, and love to please their partner as much as I love pleasing mine. The partner I seek does not have to have an interest in dom/sub as it is just one dynamic of who I am. I am dominant first over my own life. I am looking for just one person and I assure you will not regret your decision if you find me right for you. I am in no rush or need to find the right person. I am very patient and will know when he right match has been found. I have been a sub before becoming a dominant. I was taught well and have great respect for this lifestyle. I still am very close friemds with the woman that trained me. If that is a problem this will not work out.
11/2/2015 11:09:15 AM
I want to list a few things that I think will help subs in their pursuit of a healthy and honest Dom/Sub relationship. 1. Do not under any circumstance find yourself giving money to your Dom. If he is leaning on you financially, he is not demonstrating he has mastered his own life. I have seen this happen to good true submissives and it is unfortunate and misrepresents the lifestyle. 2. If you don't feel you are valued and respected by your Dom it is a red flag. Think of how a man treats his brand new or old classic car. They treat it like it is their prized possession. They will push the cars limits but take total care of it. A Sub is a very special and unique half of this world. Ying Yang.
slaverobin2009
 
 Age: 31
 London, Canada