I think we should have a sub-training camp Dominants can send their sub/slave with a list of wants and needs, and we'd train. Especially for things such as pedicures, massages, leg shaving, coffee service, cleaning, cooking, gardening ... let's start a school so we can skip the bullshit wankers with hard-ons who confuse BDSM with being a kinky fuck buddy. It's about the power exchange.

Pain slut. Little bitch. Why should I trust my lovely toes to your lips? A whimper, a groan.


Tease.

Nicaragua was muy bien. Amazing people, amazingly submissive men who are so shy it makes me hot - it may have been the temp and 90% humidity come to think of it - ;).

Behave while I'm gone. I may check my messages, I may not. If you whine about it, I'll block you. For those writing - if you don't include a pic, I simply delete your message.

I am trying to concentrate on my studies, while having daydreams of hot wax dripping down  a naked torso, and needle-pierced aureola, nipples red from the flick of a tassel at the end of my single tail ...it's nerve-wracking.

I will savor your nervous anticipation after you realize I'm watching, planning ...  like a cat playing with a toy. It heightens my awareness, and intensifies my visual imagination of where I want to send you, and how ... epic scene times when I'm in this mood.

Wow .. I am definitely enjoying  mind fucking this sub that dropped into my lap.  He saw my equipment in the storage shed ... so now I am cutting him off, and not allowing any service that I do expressly ask for ... just to watch his bewilderment.  I enjoy denial so much ... *evil laugh.*

What a wild month, I am very happy to see February end. I work hard for my grades, and push myself just as hard as I push my slaves and submissives - oh yeah, and that wonderful semi-sub partner of mine, who just about gave up and walked away last week. Don't get your hopes up, he isn't going anywhere - I am just making a point. If I can go without sleep, take care of a farm, attend school full time, and continue to get 98% on my midterms, you can imagine that I do not deal well with slackers.

Imagine the surprise when a person from our group of 6 pulls out a stolen copy of a final project document from last term's class. We all told her we didn't even want to look at it, to put it away and return it to the professor.

I would release a sub or slave who did anything remotely close to this sort of thing. Which is why I love slaves. They tend to be leaders in their own careers and lives, and need to let go of their obsessive need to control, and excel, by handing over the decisions in their home life to a competent Mistress/Master in order to stay healthy.

So for all those who think this is all about forcing submission, I feel for you. I rather enjoy those who willingly give their lives to me to control, and play with in my own sadistic ways. A live Raggedy Ann or Andy so to speak. Yes, I will call you a pathetic slut if I think you need to hear it, but in all reality, a good slave is like finding a sealed vinyl of Jimi Hendrix's lost recordings ... rare, and coveted by the owner ... except I get to cane, whip, and drip candle wax on my rare find. Much preferred in my not so humble opinion today. LOL.

I'd like to take out a bit of my pent up aggression on the idiot programmers for Windows. I am the proud owner of a new hard drive, thanks to Windows deciding to rewrite my partitions, and placing half the boot files on one, and leaving the boot manager on the other. The week before midterms of course. I've been pampered due to my troubles, so not to worry. I feel well served. But still, there are a few computer programmers who need an interrogation session or three. Cheers, PB

Along the park blocks on the PSU campus, there is a tree that is begging to have a sub tied to it. Just thought I'd share my observations lol. I've been writing scenes in my head while I sleep. I look forward to the day I am done with school, and can start producing a few. Rawr.

Wow, I am exhausted, but thoroughly enjoying my projects and classes this term. Some of you have kept the Prankster in me busy daydreaming! I am craving the whimpers and natural highs of energy-exchange right now.

Vacation is over ... back to the books. But as for subs/slaves, there are a few things that I feel all subs/slaves should practice while they wait for a Domme: pedicures, massage, keeping a journal, cooking, wine selection ... oh and shaving legs, there is nothing more relaxing than having a sub shave your legs while soaking in a tub ... it's heavenly.

Can you imagine any woman wanting to get to know a stranger who expects any woman to want to talk about fucking you with a strap-on, or smothering you with their ass on first contact? Where are your manners? Any relationship, whether vanilla, or D/s starts with respect. I am thankful that I know well behaved, thoughtful subs/slaves.

Do you check out women shopping at Home Depot twice, wondering if they are shopping for dungeon hardware? You probably should LOL. Half the women I know have a Christmas list that includes Home Depot. ;) They should probably change their uniforms for an even better market share. I'm thinking black, skimpy leather sounds delicious, with 21i Docs as standard footwear as well. *Daydreams*

Happy Holidays kinksters. I hope you all get what you're asking for, or what you deserve.

While I do not believe in absolute female supremacy, I believe that strong, competent women are natural leaders, and should be respected as such. But  I have seen just as many competent men, as I have women, so supremacy by gender only serves to push aside 50% of my peers, as well as dividing our community. However, the idea of female supremacy as a gender privilege brings up a point of contention. You straight slut boys, who are into female superiority: you dress in women's panties, and bras, in order to submit fully. How is this not a slap in the face to women? It seems like a man has to take on women's traditional roles to be subservient.

A straight man, submitting to me while self-assured in his sexual identity, offering his physical strength, and vigor, is intoxicating at times. While I enjoy putting men in panties once in a while, it is because of the stark contrast between the softness of women's undergarments, against his maleness that makes it work for me. I am open to different perspectives on this, feel free to discuss it in a message.

For those still planning to donate to charity, please look into strikedebt.org. Strike Debt just sent off their first round of forgiveness letters, letting struggling Americans know that their past medical bills have been paid. I believe we are up to 10 million dollars in past-due medical debt bought, and written off for pennies on the dollar. Not bad for the first month of The People's Bailout.

My Dec. 17th journal created a few shadow-projections from those who do not display the issues discussed ... would you say this is proof of a budding slave mentality, or simply proof of masochistic tendencies? We shall see.

Slave-failure has me thinking collarme is a waste of time. I have so little time to waste. I know there are those who need to serve, and those who want to serve -- themselves up a little bit of BDSM fantasy. This is a lifestyle for me, not a party trick.I've deleted most of my likes and dislikes as it seems no one reads them anyway haha. You'll just have to ask, and if I write you back, it's because I've read yours before I answered, and I find we have similar likes/dislikes.

Submissives, you have more leeway, as you retain much of your own life and desires. However, you self-identifying slaves better read up on the differences between sub and slave. Some of you may need to reconsider your identity. I will continue to screen mail, and delete unacceptable messages. I'm patient, and some day I know I will find the right slave mindset.

Why go through the trouble of corresponding for months, getting invited to serve, all for a no-show? I do not give second chances. I have a partner who thinks male slaves are a joke, and unfortunately today he is right, which pisses me off to no end.  Welcome to the block button slave boy .. your peers thank you for making their job that much harder when they attempt to woo a female dominant.

Wonderful conversations lately, thank you. For those I have not answered, check your past messages, and see if there is something I have required you to do before writing me again, and see whether you have done so. If you cannot fulfill my requests here, you will never serve me in person.

 The only ones being blocked, however, are those insisting on financial domination, which I am NOT into. I am very picky about who contributes to my life, and your wealth is not a turn on for me. If you would like to contribute to a worthy cause, by all means check out strikedebt. org, Kiva, or KickStart and get your rocks off helping others. If you ask about financial tribute, I will block you.

I just finished finals ...  the stress is gone ... time for trees, lights, music and some fun.  This is when the laughing sadist side comes out to play. Bummed I had to cancel the weekend with my new trainee ... I would have loved to put him through his paces.

 As for you new male subs/slaves who are writing for the first time:

 Think with your 8 lb. head, ask yourself how your message would read if you were the one receiving it. Your attention to this is much appreciated.

I've had this question a few times, so here is my answer:

What excites me about having a submissive at my feet ... the beauty of a man who is self-assured, choosing to serve a woman who is more effective, and fulfilled because of his devotion. To count him as a cherished addition in more ways than bdsm. This is not to say I won't push him, fuck with his mind, body, and heart, in an emotionally safe manner. Physically, I'm not an idiot, I know how to safely use needles, knives, wax, and whips.

How do I like to be worshiped ... really depends on the attraction between D/s ... some men make me want to indulge in playing with the pleasure-pain barrier, others make me want to use them as a personal butler ... it really depends. I'm about having a sub who is 80% Knight, 20% Knave.

I have finals the first week of December. This site is relaxing, gets me out of my homework mode for a bit here and there, and works for now. But I've been exercising my block button feverishly. You are still expected to be socially acceptable in your emails. If you aren't, I whisper, "Oh look, natural selection!" And then I push the block button. So behave.