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I will NOT send money to anyone I meet on collarme, so scammers f*ck off.
I am not interested in phone sex or cyber sex.
I am looking for a real relationship (hopefully long term) with a real person. If you're not looking for the same thing, please don't waste my time.
I am an experienced dom looking for a woman, preferably 25 or under, who wants to make me the center of her world and to give herself to me completely. I understand that this will take time, but I want to reach the point where her only desire is to please me and even my most outrageous commands are obeyed without hesitation.
My pleasure is knowing I control you completely. I will make you do things you never dreamed of doing, things you hate, just to prove that control.
In return I offer love, support, nurturing, caring, and a comfortable lifestyle. A broken or wounded soul will be comforted and repaired. I will be what you need if you can be what I want.
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Just to be entirely clear: I am also interested in just playing. If you'd like to spend an evening or weekend or whatever tied up with me hurting and using you, well, I'm definitely willing to make that a reality. (Assuming all the usual requirements are met: no STDs, mutual attraction, etc.) |
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"Half of what I say is meaningless
But I say it just to reach you"
-Beatles, "Julia"
Seems appropriate for this web site, doesn't it? |
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Yes, I'd like a long term relationship with someone under 25. Oh, and I'd like her to have a face like the young Ingrid Bergman and a body like sin itself.
But I live in the real world. I recognize that I am not necessarily going to get everything I want in life. So if you don't fit the above description it doesn't mean I'm not interested. If you're older than 25, if you're looking for something less than a full time 24/7 TPE, if you're not movie star beautiful, hey, I can adapt.
Besides, as one of my correspondents just pointed out, men are all sluts. We usually are happy to take what we can get. (I really thought y'all knew that by now.) |
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There's an old quote that's sometimes attributed to Elvis Costello, although I doubt it's really his: "Writing about music is like dancing about architecture."
The point is that there are some things that really don't lend themselves well to endless discussion and description, you just have to experience them. I'm beginning to think that the fundamental problem with this site is that most of the stuff that's really important in a relationship, whether BDSM or not, falls into that category.
So no, I don't want to talk about the details of what I'll do with you if I get you into my bedroom or dungeon, and no I don't want to talk about what kind of dom I am, and no I don't actually care that much about your philosophy of wiitwd.
It all boils down to chemistry. We will learn more about whether we have any possibility of working by sitting down together for ten minutes than we will in a year of exchanging messages online.
Yes, I'm willing to discuss limits, and safety issues, and talk enough to let you decide I'm not some wacko stalker. And I'm happy to discuss a certain basic level of qualifications - I'm too old/young, wrong race, live in the wrong place, whatever - in fact I'd be happiest if you saved us both some time and told me that stuff ASAP so I can move on to the next potential victim, um, sorry, I mean sub.
But really, after a relatively short period of time, I want to talk on the phone and ideally meet for hot chocolate and cookies or something. If you're serious about finding someone I kinda think you'd want the same thing.
End of rant. |
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It's not about sex. It's not about inflicting pain. It's not about degradation and making you crawl. I enjoy all of those things, of course, but by themselves they are empty.
It's about knowing that you are as completely mine as my house or my car or my dishwasher. It's about knowing that you will do anything I want, just because I want it. It's about your devotion and service and your focus on nothing but my happiness. The other things are just proofs and reminders of the fact that you are utterly mine. And that is all that matters. |
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"Freedom's just another word for nothing left to lose."
Apparently Janis was one of us. |
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| Age: 23 |
| Oklahoma city,
Oklahoma |
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