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| Hey everyone. Not really good with introductions but here is some stuff about me:
I think lots of communication and input into decision making by the submissive should be done, even if the dominant should have the final say in most things. I fully believe in safewords and in taking care of one's slave/submissive physically and emotionally and in the slave/submissive having time to themselves and a life outside of our relationship. I have experience with vanilla and bedroom-only BDSM relationships, but I'd like more.
I don't like being out of control in vanilla settings or in BDSM settings with people I don't trust because it makes me insecure and panicky, so initially it will take some time for me to surrender to someone else, though I’m pretty quick into the dominant role in maledom relationships or parts of switch relationships.
I'm not a fetishist or a sadist. I am in this lifestyle for the power exchange, not anything else. That doesn't mean that I won't engage in a partner's fetish or that I don't ever want to inflict pain or receive pain of any degree, but if your primary reason for being into BDSM is a sub-fetish of BDSM or because you are a masochist or sadist or sadomasochist, we are probably not a good match. I am very turned on by power play. This can sometimes pain as punishment or amusement, but generally receiving and/or giving some form of service or giving and/or receiving some form of objectification or degradation. If you impress me, you will be rewarded. I expect the same in reverse if I’m a sub or in a sub role at that moment. Obedience and worship is a given, either way.
I am very willing to move for the right person/couple/group.
In my free time I really enjoy following politics. I consider myself to be a radical centrist. I'm also a Trekkie and love all five Star Trek shows and most of the many movies. I also really like Top Gear UK and Frasier. Right now I'm also watching Criminal Minds. Love that show!
Anyhow, I am open to discussion. I want to broaden my knowledge of the lifestyle, as well as find people worthy of being used or comforting enough to use me (or preferably both!!!!!). I am ever an intellectual hoping to learn more about power and control. If you are interested in sharing your experiences or becoming part of mine, send me a message.
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