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Hetero Male Master, 34,  Long Beach, California
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The 'Nilla side: Despite all the responsibility of running my own business I'm still a left-brained musician at heart. I hate waking up early, I think abstractly and never forget that happiness and fulfillment are life's ultimate goals. Everything else is a means to that end. Fewer hours are sacrificed to the gym than once were but I still eat a healthy diet and squeeze in fitness at every opportunity. I'm very open-minded about just about anything involving consenting adults and live by a strict but simple moral code...don't do harm to other people. Everything else goes. When faced with a new adventure, opportunity or challenge, I always start at "yes, let's do it". I'm either going to discover a new love or I'll learn something about myself and grow. Maybe both. I've breathed enough air on this earth to have a very clear idea of what catches my eye and heart and fulfills my needs and I stopped settling long ago. Lastly, I never waste energy on matters outside of my control but never relinquish responsibility for those within. The Kink Side: It is both my nature and my passion to exercise control over you as my slave in a variety of kinky, passionate, degrading ways. The mind must always submit first, and that starts with trust which is established through complete honesty and transparency on both both of our parts. This is very difficult for most as we are conditioned since youth to build walls of expectation, fear and judgement. Breaking that wall down creates a vulnerability that is foreign and frightening. That is where it is my job to let you know that even with your innermost thoughts, emotions, desires and perversions exposed, you are safe and protected from judgement and resentment and are not only accepted for the person you truly are but valued. Once I've revealed the core of my being, you as my slave will know that I am honest, forthright, sturdy, direct, protective, authentic and genuine in my desire to see you blossom under my care and control into the devout slave you are capable of being. You will also learn from the knowledge I've gained in over eight years in this lifestyle and the creativity and passion from which my will is enacted. Once your mind has not only allowed but compelled you to give herself to me completely, I begin my control of your service to me, your body and actions. I control your look, transforming you into a bimbo barbie doll so that you are always aesthetically pleasing to me. I will provide the resources, encouragement and guidance you need to achieve this look. It is not enough merely to achieve the bimbo barbie look, but to be embody it and be proud of your beauty as seen through my eyes. You would never be allowed to forget what it feels like to be gazed upon as the most beautiful and desired creature on the planet. You can expect to perform, nasty, degrading actions for my amusement. You will not like to do these things at first. You may even cry a bit. But as your training progresses the way in which you view these acts will change as you see them please me which in turn gives you the happiness and fulfillment you desire. You will come to a point where you live to hear the words "good girl" and would do anything my heart desires to hear them once more. I also will be holding you responible for maintaining our home while I work and provide for us. I expect you to always be available to use as I see fit whether it be an impromptu spanking, a good rough throat fucking, three holed cum dumpster or as my personal masseuss. I also frequently indulge in heavy degradation, humiliation, and rough/forceful/sex. I am well versed in safe and proper technique for spanking, choking, hair pulling, restraints and various other BDSM activities. In return for your devoted service to me, you as my slave can expect to be selflessly loved, cherished, nurtured, protected and provided for for life. This is an extreme lifestyle and the costs are high. We must both give completely of ourselves. But like anything else in life, the things that hold the most value also have the highest cost. My last slave and I ended our four year marriage late last year. It's a long story but she suffered from some mental illnesses and in the end we decided she would have a better chance to regain her mental health and happiness if she was not engaged in BDSM. We were both ok with how it ended and have a mutual respect for each other. That was my second long term M/s relationship and neither ended because of problems with the relationship. In that I consider them as having been successful. I know how to make these kinds of relationships work in real life, not just fantasy-land. Additionally, I know this is the internet but if you don't know how to show a basic level of common courtesy that should be shown to nearly all fellow human beings then don't bother speaking to me. In this case I would also suggest rethinking you're participation on an adult site until you attain the appropriate level of maturity.












 Dominant Male

 Long Beach 


 6' 2"

 205 lbs






Actively Seeking:

Submissive Female

 Lives For:

 Weightlifting (Expert)

 Anal Play (Expert)

 Exhibitionism (Expert)

 Hair Pulling (Expert)


 Massage (Getting) (Expert)

 Objectification (Expert)

 Public Play  (Expert)


 TV Sports

 Singing (Expert)

 Nutrition (Expert)

 Writing (Expert)

 1950s Lifestyle

 Nineties Music


 Body Building



 Amusement Parks


 Fine Dining






 Dancing (Expert)


 Begging (Expert)

 Breast Play

 Collars (Expert)


 Dilation (Beginner)

 Mental Bondage

 Obedience Training

 Spanking (Expert)

 Art Collecting (Beginner)

 Karaoke (Expert)


 Intellectual Discourse

 Liberal Politics

 Philosophy (Beginner)


 Swinging (Beginner)


 Hip Hop Music

 Rock Music





 Art Galleries

 Bar Hopping


 Coffee Shops


 Renaissance Faires


 Horseback Riding

 Ultimate Frisbee


 Body Worship


 Corner Time

 Local BDSM Community

 Fisting (Expert)

 Gags (Beginner)


 Massage (Giving) (Expert)

 Speech Restrictions (Beginner)




 Arcade Games

 Board Games

 Card Games


 Comedy Shows

 Simulation Games


 Web Surfing

 Body Art (Beginner)

 Investing (Beginner)

 Economics (Beginner)

 Mathematics (Expert)

 Political Activism

 Diet and Exercise (Expert)

 Alternative Music

 Eighties Music



 Seventies Music





 Flea Markets


 Going to the Opera



 Running (Expert)

 Canes and Crops

 Foot Worship


 Wax play

 Keto (Expert)


 Classical Music

 Country Music

 Heavy Metal Music

 Industrial Music

 New Wave

 Pop Music

 Punk Rock Music





 Ice Hockey

 Curious About:




 Scuba Diving


 Surf Boarding

 Wind Surfing


 Electrical Play (Beginner)

 Eye Contact Restrictions


 Orgasm Denial

 Outdoor Bondage

 Plastic Wrap

 Pony/Puppy Roleplay

 Sensory Deprivation







 Feng Shui







 Genital Punishment


 Knife Play

 Masks (On Partner)

 Masks (Wearing)

 Medical Play

 Rubber Fetish



 Theatrical Scenes


 Electronica / EDM

 EMO Music

 Opera Music

 Show Tunes







 Fire Play

 Gas Masks


 Needle Play


 Role Playing


 Conservative Politics

 Female Supremacy

 Goth Lifestyle




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Journal Entries:
12/12/2015 1:29:56 PM
Just so nobody thinks my last journal entry is recent, the sub I found in 2011 eventually became my wife. We had a wonderful loving, supportive M/s relationship but in the end decided we wanted different things in life. ?I am now looking for a partner to share my life with.?

9/30/2011 10:16:47 PM

It seems I found my sub, my slave, my fuckdoll (emi2185).  She's amazingly beautiful inside and out,  and everything I want in a slave and in a partner.  In her pursuit to be my ideal, she has the ability to serve me unlike any other and in turn will be properly loved and cared for for life. 

8/26/2011 3:27:27 PM

From now on I will be requiring anyone who is interested in a relationship to prove they are genuine via webcam and/or custom pictures and/or additional documentation within two weeks of emailing.  As far as I'm concerned pictures only prove that you know how to go on myspace and save pictures and phone calls prove you know how to purchase a prepaid phone and that you're not a mute.   


It's sad and pathetic the lengths some people will go to create a fake persona all for attention. 

7/8/2011 9:57:35 AM

I think one of my favorite aspects of this community/lifestyle is that it answers the age old question "Will you still need me, will you still feed me when I'm sixty four?"  I like the answer. :)

12/27/2010 7:10:45 AM

I recently spent a year (on and off) talking to someone only to find out they were fake.  The lesson learned has been that anyone I'm seriously interested in will meet me in person after no longer than a  few weeks of chatting.  If you're still hesitant, shy or whatever after that amount of time I will assume you're hiding the fact that you're not who or what you've described and I will move on. 

1/20/2010 8:30:51 PM
I'm finding that a swift decent that sends me crashing to the ground is lifes way of saying I'm still learning to fly.

12/9/2009 10:53:19 PM
Anything worth having is worth fighting for. It's the beautiful struggle.

10/29/2009 2:34:34 AM
If the girl in your picture is beautiful enough to model, has hair obviously done by a professional stylist, clothes obviously picked out by a wardrobe person (albeit a kinky one), is in a perfectly lit room with perfect skintones only a photshop pro can achieve...guess what??? I KNOW YOU'RE FAKE And I feel sorry for the double digit IQ morons who don't... And if for some reason you ARE a real girl and are using someone elses photo like this or actually ARE a model and have pictures of yourself like this, do yourself a favor and go another route.

10/29/2009 2:22:09 AM
I was starting to wonder why there are so few really attractive women in this community. Then I figured out that there are, they're just all Dommes. And then when I thought back to all the countless gorgeous women I've known, dated or whatever, it all makes sense. Most of them had this sense of entitlement that they got from their looks, or more accurately, the attention they received from men because of their looks. From the moment they realize they have power over most men they begin to use it and sometimes abuse it. And like all human beings, the more power we amass, the more we crave which is the birth of a Domme (although certainly not the only way one becomes a Domme). Absolute power corrupts absolutely. I suppose I always knew I was playing against a stacked deck, but this isn't Vegas and the house doesn't always win. I've never let an uphill battle stop me in the past and I'm not going to start now. I will find my sub.

10/16/2009 7:37:07 PM
I'm just going to put this out there. If you're not physically fit, conversation is as far as we're ever gonna get. I have two reasons for this. This first is that you being in this community shows that you understand how valuable our sexual beings are to life and happiness yet you fail to better yourself to be the best sexual partner you can be. 95% of overweight/obese people CAN do something about it and simply choose not to. Someone who makes that choice is not someone I can respect as a sexual partner. My second reason: My cock simply won't get very hard, if at all. Even if I decided to not be so "shallow" and choose a partner based solely on what's "inside", when things got going you would just look at me and think "What's wrong with it?" So again, I welcome any and all conversation with anyone, but if if you're not fairly fit, thats as far as it goes. If you're a bit overweight and are VERY serious about losing it and getting fit, then maybe I can make an exception but you would have to prove your dedication to yourself and your health. In which case I would love to help you reach your fitness goals as I am very knowledgeable in diet and fitness.

8/31/2009 12:09:05 PM
While he's not m favorite comedian, I sure do appreciate Jeff Foxworthy's format. So in that tradition, here are some thoughts. If your profile is scarce of any info or just might be totally lame. If you don't have some kind of picture and aren't very might be totally lame. If your profile has no mention of kink anywhere and reads like an eharmony might be totally lame. If you think that tons of people sending you messages gives you any value or might be totally lame. If your Yahoo/AIM chat participation is limited to "ok", "cool" and "yeah" might be totally lame. If you describe the way you want to be treated and then get offended that you're treated that might be totally lame. If you DON'T describe the way you want to be treated and then get offended that you aren't treated in the specific manner in which you might be totally lame If you copy and paste what's in your profile into your opening might be totally lame.

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