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Its a complicated world and being part of the BDSM world makes it even more complicated in some ways but a lot easier in others. I am not really interested in short term play but would prefer to find someone who is that missing half and more in the general scheme of things. Travel is a big part of who I am and should be an important part of your mindset as well. It's fair to say that someone who is of a stay-at-home nature won't be real happy with my lifestyle. Sports (sailing,surfing, cycling, climbing, and skiing are anther part of who I happen to be. The arts are a central component of my life (you might say it is my profession) and, as such, it would make sense that it be a big part of those I hang with. As far as the kinky stuff goes... The whole Ds thing is central to who I am and the Power dynamic is my drug of choice and always has been. Pushing the envelope and barriers is very much a part of that and that tends to keep my kinks on the edgy side of the line.
9/24/2011 12:16:42 PM

Someone recently asked what sort of submissive I was attracted to, and it kind of stumped me.

The thing is, for me at least, all submissive women have a certain allure that is so much more powerful than simple aspects such as blonde hair, big breasts, thin or ample.

On the other hand one part of who someone is that I do find a huge attraction is a submissive who dresses to attract. Which is not exactly dressing up or slutty but allowing their inner core to show through whatever that may be. Goth librarian or little lost girl...

onetrueme
 
 Age: 34
 Venice, Florida