I actually hope that she finds what/Whom she is looking for. I also wonder why when folks here say that size shape or age is not important still check the box that limits the candidates’ age. LOL! What is that all about for fucks sake? Kind of makes them a tad inconsistent I believe. And since the Lifestyle is not just all about sex, why would age matter? If the sub is worried about the Dominate dying, then I submit that anyone can die at any time no matter what their age is. Second: the Lifestyle is about service and trust and yes love in it’s way so if there is not much sex then just being there should suffice since the sub should want to please their Dominate simply by doing as commanded. Third: Dominates have tended to loan Their property to Other’s to use from time to time so that should take care of any sexual needs the Dominate can’t provide for what ever reason

Wow it has been most of 3 years since I last posted. And not a lot has changed all in all. However I saw a profile for a girl named "katsmeow" and I really was impressed with her profile and a comment she may in her journal. I sent her a msg. saying this:" 

you might want to also try the terms: Crazy as a shit house rat, Barking mad, and also prismatic asshole. (means that they are an asshole no matter what angle you look at them from. Good luck in your search. if you need help with any questions then ask.

she wrote back with "Okay, random question; SSC is.... ? To which I responded with "Hmm Sanitary Service Company, Schizophrenia Society of Canada, Saint Scholastica's College, Skill Specialty Code, Super Star Cluster, OR how about Safe, Sane, and Consensual? DUH! Quit wasting my time you silly twit.   she wrote back one word 'Rude" then blocked me. First the question is a waste of time since even a troll that knows anything about us and the lifestyle would know the answer. So here I am again wondering why the wannabe's, lookers, hopefuls, can ask silly questions of the Dom(is) yet when the get spanked for it they to a person think WE are rude! Has the Lifestyle come so far from its roots that the subs & slaves dictate to Us the Dom (ies)? It seems to be the case, which saddens me greatly since the whole of the Lifestyle seems to becoming a part time, if they feel like it, hobby or entertainment. Take for instance the remark:
      "Ok tired of the boys....I want a man and I want one that will use me sexually and doesn’t have a problem telling me how...now stop being little bitches and tell me how you want to use me daddy....but follow the rules or be blocked....no one lines...creativity!" she also states she won't scrub floors. And because she's "Hot". She seems to think like most of the profiles I read here and in other places that the Lifestyle is some kind of "a la carte" service where she can pick and choose what when and how. The Lifestyle is NOT a fucking hobby, or part time entertainment. Even if 2 people can't be together for 24/7 (for any number of reasons) they can and should continue the Lifestyle out of the bedroom and the house. I am not saying that either party should interfere with the others job or work site. Nor am I saying that when out in public that the Dominate should expect Their property to act in any way that would be inappropriate or demean the Lifestyle in general. But the Lifestyle IS a way of thinking and behaving that transcends time and space.