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	I am English although I have lived in other nations for the past twenty years. I am very vanilla in normal life. Perhaps I am confident and assertive. I'm not a sub or slave to just anyone. In some ways I am not even by nature a sub/slave because to my mind everyone should value themselves and be proud of whatever talents and achievements they have. However, as good as a man can be he should also be aware that women are superior to men and therefore it is natural that the man submit to and obey the woman. To me this is not a demeaning thing; it is a glorious and wonderful thing. For this reason I am looking for a woman for a LTR who I can love, obey and serve. I like bitchy, self confident women who have a mean streak and like to keep their man under their heels in service to their desires and emotions not matter how selfish this might appear in the vanilla world. I do not seek just any female to put on the appropriate costume and go through the motions though. For me the joy of loving and serving a Domme is not about costumes and utensils. It takes a special woman to take the role of dominant. Men's power is simple and blunt and therefore I believe that in the past men had the upper hand in society as it was very quick and easy for men to master what power they do have. Women’s' power though is very subtle and sophisticated but when mastered it is far superior to men’s power. For this reason it has taken women in society a little longer to master their own power. More and more these days’ women are learning how powerful they are and are taking more control of society with every day, month and year that goes by. Still though, not all women have learned to master their power. Therefore I am seeking not an owner/lover who wants to feel her power because her man obeys her and serves her but I am seeking a woman to obey and serve because she feels her power. I am not looking for one night stands, sessions or public displays. I don't like going to 'clubs' or mixing with others who are into bdsm-d/s. I am looking for a serious, deep, loving and long term relationship with a woman who just happens to be very dominant to the man she loves. In public I may appear to be her lover and protector, I will hold the door for her, pull out her chair to seat her, hold her shopping bags and generally be a perfect and attentive gentleman when we are in public but the reality will be that I am her slave. I am owned by her and although we have a deep and fulfilling monogamous relationship I will always obey and serve her and this includes not only things that I might also happen to like doing but things that I don't like doing or even hate doing. The obedience and service will not just be in the form of external actions but of the heart and soul so it won't matter if I like what I am ordered to do. All that will matter is that my owner wishes it. Please contact me if you are also looking for a serious relationship of this kind.