you may call me Lotus i will give my birth name when i feel i am ready. i am engaged, so no we are not looking for anything as of this moment, maybe sometime next year but if we were to be looking... we would be intersted in a submissive female disease, drug and drama free... in northern chicago area...

i am here mainly to find more S and D friends to talk to for knowledge and other purposes and nothing more for now!!!!! i have been into the S@D scene for awhile now... i am 27 going on 28, 5'1, hazel eyes, medium build,brown hair when not dyed (now it's red) would like to consider myself decent looking...

i will say this once and once only i am ENGAGED and i am not looking to mess around behind my FIANCE'S back so NO MEN!!!!!
if we decide to have a female join it will be a submissive play toy for "US".... so on another note....

just a few things to know about me i love family time, cooking, camping, hiking, anything to do with the outdoors, mother earth and all her glory, movies, books, and alot more...

i am greek, irish, scottish, german, italian, and sicilian... i dont know take kindly to people who like to poke fun at people for their view on beliefs or any aspect of their lives so if you fit this discription please dont waste my time or yours...

any other serious inquiries feel free to ask....