I have recently ended a heavy BDSM relationship with a partner of 3 years, and am currently seeking a submissive, slave oriented female to replace the physical and mental needs that I still experience. My personality does not adhere to every sub female out there, so please read the entire profile:
I am a heavy sadist. "To love is to hurt, and to hurt is to love", by unknown, is the mantra that I play by. Sexual arousal, be it from a primal urge or a modern perversion, is only secondary to the mental rush I experience by dispensing physical penalty. I do not believe in the safe word, pleas note that.
A safe word contradicts the whole idea of a masochistic, subservient relationship with a Master or a Dom, and in my opinion, is used only by amateur Doms and those not willing to submit. Once the trust is built, a subject will trust her Master enough to know that he will not push the limits that are not yet ready to be pushed, and will not damage the fine fibers of their intricate relationship with unjustified injury. In other words, when you submit, you have made a choice to endure whatever form of 'interaction' that occurs, only because you at this point trust the master enough to do so.
Speaking of limits, I believe that a true submissive will push all reasonable limts (our legal system is based on reasonable perception of the law, so reasonable as I see it is what is found acceptable in terms of the wide range of BDSM). Make your hard limits clear to me before we engage in any activities, as I will respect them. But understand that HARD LIMITS are named so because they signify a boundary you ARE NEVER WILLING TO CROSS (yes, I have some too); if you tell me something like "well, I'll think about that but just don't want to try it now", you are telling me that you are an amateur and that the subject is not a limit at all... in other words, you are teasing me; I don't like to be teased.
I am not looking for an experienced Sub/Slave per se, just one that is sure of herself, and that is 100% confident that she is a sub (no switches, experimenters, and/or similars). I am not looking for a 24/7 slave or a committed relationship; I have children, a business, and obligations that come prior to my lifestyle; I cannot and do not wish to do anything to change this. As most f us know, our daily life can be very different than our extra-curricular activities, and mine simply does not mesh well with my interests. If a relationship does occur, I am not opposed to it, but having just been through a long term BDSM connection, I found that it simply does not last and takes from the experience(I'll explain this in person). I am interested in someone DRUG AND DISEASE free!! BDSM play is not safe, even when no intercourse is involved, and I get checked regularly, making sure to keep my test results; I'd appreciate someone equally vigilant.
As for my interests, I have dabbled in a little bit of all spectrums of BDSM, from lite to the gory and perverted, but have a preference for: 1) Pain play, including pinching, biting, beatings (with contracts), slapping, ear pulling, hair pulling, fisting, caning, and hot branding (only with mutual consent) 2) humiliation: including objectification, public bukkake and urolagnia, leash training (public and private), forced voyeurism (eg, public displays), defilement (dirt or food), and verbal degradation; 3) blood play including needle play, puncture suction, razor play, and precision cuts (will only do blood play once I truly know someone) 4) Domestic slavery (I do not need a maid, in the long run, I need a salve) including corn stoops (ask if you don't know what it is), foot and body cleaning, personal urinal service, and branding (non hot).

I have never been involved in the ‘community” and may be interested in someone with contacts there, although, as you will notice if we meet, I am a deeply reserved and private person when it comes to my lifestyle. I do not wish my family exposed to BDSM (unless it happens by their own choice).