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Hello! I am new, but have been curious for well over a decade. I'm genuinely excited about the possibility of exploring a "real" dom/sub relationship. I have to admit, I feel it will be difficult to find the "right" dom. I am open to any input/feedback/suggestions anyone may have. So please do provide them if you're so inclined! I'm a 39 year old, plus size (large, that is; not just a few extra pounds) curious submissive. I'm a professional,unmarried, and have no children. What am I looking for? I have to say that I believe who I think I'm looking for may likely end up being someone different than I envision. So please don't read this as hard and fast, but instead please do reach out if you see the potential for a connection. With that said, I am drawn to black men. And would love to find a strong, black master. I see someone older and very experienced. Someone patient and willing to help me learn. I THINK I'd prefer only an "online" (text/phone) relationship for now. So in that sense, he could be located anywhere. However, I think it'd be great if one day it moved to in person experiences. But I do want to be completely transparent and can't guarantee the in person part at this time. I am 100% interested in the control aspects of this relationship. I'm hopeful to find someone who is compassionate and cares about me infinitely. Pain is not a piece of the equation, for me. The mental components are everything. And the physical only a manifestation of them. I am ecstatic about the possibility of completely turning myself over to the "right" one who will view that as the gift and responsibility that it is. I'm doing a horrible job of articulating myself here, but I hope it's a decent enough start. I'm hesitant to post pictures here, but do have them and of course am willing to share them directly.
slaveisa
 
 Age: 24
 Tawi tawi, Philippines