Collarspace.com

I am new to the lifestyle, mainly looking to explore and become better informed. Hopefully, I will eventually find an individual whom I can trust and respect enough to be my Dom. Although I am very interested in exploring the alt lifestyle I lead a vanilla life so discretion is paramount. I've never dated anyone that was willing to explore this lifestyle with me so I'm not altogether sure what acts I would enjoy as opposed to what I just like to fantasize about. That being said, I am completely uninterested in anything to do with blood, scat/water sports, branding, knife/needle play, or anything that will cause permanent damage. As an aside, please don't bother to contact me if your first inclination is to call a female a slut or whore when first making contact. You wouldn't do it in person, why would you assume it's a good thing to do here?