Don't waste your time with erosqq303

. Unfortunatly she doesn't know what she wants, who she is and when you try to connect with her she blocks you because you ask her opinion on one of her enjoyments (not sexual-feminism). If you enjoy this treatment this is your girl, if you don't stay away. Just a little warning.

Ok I'm a bit tipsy but don't make plans with someone, break them, then two weeks later say shit to them about not speaking to you. If your sorry fine I am nice and forgive but don't give me greif for your mistake and don't think I won't call you on the mistake.  Again I am tipsy please forgive me if that was a bit off lol

Don't take my politeness as weakness, don't take my kindness as earned, and don't take the fact that I won't demand of you until I know you as me being less of who I am.

If you are even the slightness bit aware of respect don't make plans and then not show nor write, I won't waste my time is asking why. I don't chase, I won't chase, and if you want to be chased find a dog.

I am nice because you catch more flies with honey and I don't see the purpose in starting out anything with another human being on bad terms.

I am blunt and open and expect whom ever I communicate with to be as well.

I am collared BUT THAT DOES NOT MEAN I am any less of a Domme nor will be to whom ever I collar.

If you are interested and don't know what to write be honest, don't be false, don't be male submissive, and most of all have some idea as to what you want on this planet.

What is up with newbies, and by this I don't mean all just those that post I am new to this and don't know anything do all the work and let me see if I like it.

If your new that is great that you are opening yourself to new experiences. However if you write that you are new and you want someone to teach you everything, get real. When I was new I had teachers but I also had done research talked with people read all i could about BDSM the lifestyle, the activities, the people, everything I could get my hands on. So when I had a conversation with another person in the lifestyle I could comprehend what they were saying and what i was looking to explore.

I.E. don't waste my time with laziness, do yourself everyone else and the world a favor and know what you want or at least the basics before you try to contact me.

lol it is one of my WTF days I suppose lol

If you write to me how are you doing, don't bother seriously. If you have nothing more to say than you haven't read my profile and you are fishing. I will write back the same response. If you don't take the time to be genuine neither will I and it is your sad mistake because if you write back again i will know and not waste my time.

Again another WTF?

Abuse isn't BDSM, I don't see how people could mistake the two. How do I put this? Perhaps it is how I have been perhaps it is how I am treated. I was a sadist Domme but my punishments were corrections and when I gave them they weren't to be enjoyed nor taken as a way of life as to if I got in a pissy mood I would give them. If you like to be abused, beaten, and demeaned than don't contact me, I won't treat another human being like garbage. I might forget to write a couple of days, I might forget your name till I know you better (I have faults as well), but I won't and I will repeat won't treat you like you are trash. I personally feel and I suppose this is where I am tainted, that a sub/slave is an expression of their Master/Mistress/Dom/Domme/Top. As such if you treat them well you earn their submission and this is a continuing process just like them treating you well to earn their collar. Why is this basic human function of decency falling to the way side to assholes that are nothing but little people inside that feel they need to treat someone who gives one of the greatest gifts as garbage?

Also to little boys who don't know how to behave. If you are going to write to someone about such a topic as pregnancy KNOW THEM FIRST!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Also read their profile I have no interest in male sub and gee I wonder why now. (not really being a little sarcastic) And if it matters to anyone I am infertile, my Master loves me despite this flaw in my being.

Ok what the hell? Why send someone a friend circle request if you've never spoken to them before? I don't want you on my profile everytime someone looks at mine and think I am friends with you unless I know you. Follow procedure, be respectful, get to know someone before you send one of those requests. If you don't know how to communicate to another human being on this site how do you ever think you will able to communicate with a live person? If i know you great I will accept if I don't, don't bother.  

Here we go again I will speak my mind, lucky you lol. I am honest, I am upfront, and I will tell you from the very begining what is what. If that isn't what you want then don't contact me I don't have the time nor the patience anymore to put up with inmature people. Master and I wish to meet people locally to actually enjoy real time couple gatherings, platanic in nature. If not local fine but don't bull shit with me about coming around, don't have me prepare for your arrival and then become someone else, don't pretend. I am who I am and I expect you to be who you really are. If you don't know who you are, that's fine but don't pretend. Every day I learn something new about myself, my Master, and about life that is what keeps me getting out of bed everyone morning.

Bottom line don't lie to me and I won't to you.

Why do you care? I have gotten a few emails that either say that I am a switch or a fraud or going to hell. Why do you care? My view point is if you don't have to fuck some one why does it concern you what race, gender, sex preferance, religion, or any other stupid bull shit that wouldn't matter if you were secure in yourself. If it is such a deal breaker that you must condeem someone you havn't even spoken to perhaps you need to put yourself in a little box, ship yourself to a tiny island, and rot away because that is what you are doing to your inner self by not exploring all that is out there that life has to offer.

I mean this with no offense to anybody however male sub's/slave's I'm not interested in you for anything besides friendship. If you are unable to write a simple email stating your purpose I don't have the patience to put up with you. I am a nice person, a sadistic Domme to woman and a collared sub. I am not an idiot, a Domme to men, or one who likes weak men. Friendship is my primary reason being here however I do have permission from my Master to collar a girl under me only. It is my need to collar a woman and not a man. Master doesn't care just wants me happy and having my own little girl does. Sorry men it is nothing personal I just have a real strong Master and no other man could ever take his place. 

Once more so it is clear as day only friendship for men. Friendship to start off with woman with possibly more later but not necessary. 

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KdS6HFQ_LUc

I was so very excited when I heard the S&M song from Rihanna then she came out with the video. On one hand I'm happy that a cultural icon is bringing the lifestyle to light but the video did nothing but exacerbate the hollywood dillusion of who and what our lifestyle is involved in.