It has become very obvious to Me that you men have no clue as to what some of us Dommes have invested in our craft.
You come to Me expecting Me to take you on as a sub/slave … to train you … to provide service in areas of your interest with no expectation on your part to have any investment what-so-ever. Many of you men are married and therefore expect discretion and we have to be very skilled in our craft to engage in the areas of play without leaving any marks or tell-tale signs. You expect Me to be available when you can best hide your escape.
You wouldn’t go to a Barber or Salon asking for a haircut for free.
You wouldn’t go to a Nail Salon asking for a manicure for free.
You wouldn’t go to a Massage Therapist for a massage for free.
You wouldn’t expect your Drycleaners to clean your shirts for free.
You wouldn’t ask an attendant to wash your Car for free.
These are all services provided by someone skilled in their craft just like Me. I attend classes both online and in real time groups offered in the New England area. It teaches Me safety factors as well as proper use of instruments (toys/tools of the trade). It teaches Me different techniques as well as creative new spins on old games.
Then there are the toys/tools of the trade. There are the outfits and shoes. There are all those items that have to be replenished such as gels and lubes, condoms for the toys, cleaning solutions, oils, batteries, music, etc.. Not a small investment for sure!!!
You request this service of Me but you balk at the request for tribute.
You say you want to serve Me but you are really seeking a Domme who can fill your needs … to provide a service to you in areas you desire. Dommes who provide their time already have a lot more invested in you than you do in them. When I meet with you I have prepared Myself for you … even if it is only to offer you knowledge to answer your questions.
You get what you pay for.
You get out of it what you put into it.
You will continue to sift through profiles and emails and be disappointed as well as disappoint potential Dommes if you don’t expect to invest more than just showing up.
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