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| "The play's the thing wherein I'll catch the conscience of the King."
If you're a literate fan of Shakespeare and the dramatic arts, have a love of books, the arts and culture, and prefer a sense of quietude and harmony at home rather than constant tension and faux excitement, then I may be the sub for you.
I'm seeking a long-term relationship, leading ideally to marriage, with a dominant woman who has distinct bookworm qualities. That means 95% of the women on Collarme.com can stop reading now. That's fine, thank you, I only need one.
If you're past the point of -- (or never enjoyed) -- constant bar-hopping, partying, club dancing, and the devil-may-care world of endless and frivolous social mania, we well may make it work. I know this type of woman is hard to find in New York, which has degenerated into a culture of money-grubbing social misfits incapable of forming lasting attachments, but with 14 million people in the area, I figure there has to be one who thinks like I do. So here's a little peek into how I think:
1. I'm a lawyer who has my own practice which is demanding, yet flexible. I rarely work on weekends and I am home most nights. My commute is short so when I come home I am not dead-tired, but ready, willing and able to enjoy my life.
2. I keep a clean house in a great neighborhood and I am divorced with no children. I have a good sense of humor and a lively, dynamic personality, which is balanced by great internal strength and spiritual fortitude. I cannot relocate, but I can relocate you to me.
3. I am an artist and an intellectual in the body of a bruiser. I combine acumen with a certain physical and at times mystic power. I should be a dom, and I present as one, but I'm not, I'm submissive. I'm not a body builder either, although at 50, I am strong and look good for my age. I do keep active and work-out at times, but since my overriding impetus is intellectual, I tend to spend most of my spare time writing, reading, and watching film. I detest loud clubs and bars, but like to attend serious theater or anything artistic. I enjoy a variety of cuisines, occasional travel, and like to scuba dive or horseback ride from time to time.
4. I am very caring and attentive to the people I love, and I am enamored of being devoted to a suitable woman. I'm an excellent cook, have few bad habits, and I am protective and service oriented. I believe that women have the capacity to embody the Goddess on Earth, but for many reasons most have lost the ability to inspire devotion -- particularly in the bdsm milieu.
(Clue for all you younger wannabe dommes: calling him a 'bitch' and demanding 'tribute' may inspire an erection but not loyalty. That's one reason so many of you are "disgusted" with all the "fakes" and "phonies." Believe me, if you make it about the money, he will make it about the sex. Think about it, is this really how you want to spend your life? )
A good match for me is a woman versed in classic literature and the arts, a cultured and insightful person, perhaps a writer, a musician, a painter, etc., (not necessarily professional) who believes in controlling a man completely, but in a quieter and more sophisticated way than is normally displayed on this website. Women of all stripes are welcome to inquire, if you believe that a house should be a Temple, and you its Sacred Goddess. Balance is the key. Being very centered myself, I do not respond well to histrionics or frequent, radical mood swings. I take it on faith that our goal is to achieve progressively deeper levels of my devotion to you as time goes by.
I'm not putting any fetishes down here, since my primary fetish is the Superior Woman herself. However, I am unshockable, and if our chemistry clicks, will submit to whatever delightful and diabolical caprices strike your fancy, provided they are legal and marginally sane. The more exceptional aspects of a Female Led Relationship are definitely in play, ("the play's the thing") but in my make-up, the body follows the mind.
Again, if you like the idea of reading a book while your submissive is in the next room writing, knowing that the invisible collar around his testicles is attached to the invisible leash in your hand, then I humbly and respectfully urge you to write to me.
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