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I am sensual sub/bottom who is looking for friends and play partner.
Please note that kinky sex and BDSM sessions are not the same, but there is a room for either or both. Being dominant and being domineering are not the same. Being dominated and being subjugated are not the same. Submissives are not less of anything.
I’ve been in this lifestyle for a little while and then took a break. Now looking to get back in to it, provided a right partner comes along. I do not practice 24/7 and have no interest to start at this time. For me, this lifestyle is nice break from a daily routine and provides a positive outlet for pent-up energy.
I am not looking for anything too serious, however, I am also not interested in a fly-by-the-night D/s sessions. D/s relationships require a lot of trust and communication between two people, which takes time to develop to fully appreciate what this lifestyle has to offer for both body and soul. It doesn’t just happen instantly. For me it isn’t anyway. From my experience, with the right person whom I trust, I am willing to try new things and explore deeper.
I am happy to make new friendships with novices and experienced Dominants alike, however, I only play with Dominants that have some experience under their belt, pun intended.
With new people I only meet in public places for the first meeting and only play at public parties and clubs until some comfort level is established. Thankfully, there are plenty of both around NYC and Long Island. Even better if I can watch you play with your existing partner at a party or a club first. If you have a FetLife profile, please let me know what it is. If you are active in the NYC and/or Long Island scene we may have friends in common. I strongly lean towards be able to check Dom’s references from other people in the scene. Public scene is very important to me and I am not interested in being someone’s dirty little secret. Plus, my personal safety comes first above all else.
Things I am definitely not: an instant ready to use out of the box obedient submissive, a slave, or someone who enjoys humiliation and/or degradation of any sort.
I am interested to meet a mature, as in not childish or naïve, Dominant man who respects his play partners and their limits, who is a respectful person in general in life, has common sense, and does not think that the world revolves around him. I am a professional with life outside of this lifestyle, which I except to be fully respected.
PS: This goes for the married or otherwise attached men who send me messages. I don’t particularly care if you are married, however, I do care if you are available during evenings/weekends, can attend occasional parties and clubs, and able to keep in touch via phone/txt/email. I have no interest to out anyone or be indiscreet, but like a said above, communication and trust are too important to ignore.
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