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Been in the BDSM game for some years now and finding that while terms like dominant and submissive are useful, they often limit what I find fun in a dynamic and the kinds of guys I play with. I mostly identify as a domme but I find that many men see submission as emasculating and feminizing, and those arent my kinks.
I want to meet a confident, witty, masculine guy who really gets off on pleasing a woman, no matter what that takes. Having fun and creating a good vibe is the most important aspect. We dont switch, rather we understand what our unique dynamic as people is. The aim is to have something regular inside and outside of the bedroom, with a lot of communication and trust-building.
Some needs and potential deal-breakers I really like to tease. I want to be playful and intentionally get you riled up to play with me. I need this to stay a little unfair and in my favor. This can be as light as me edging some nights to as heavy as a week-long torture, as a sexual example. I also like guys who lean in some sort of service-y way, but its not required you be a butler. I do not necessarily want to degrade you (though if you like humiliation we can talk) and I definitely do not want to do feminization or sissification. I do not want to be dominanted, hurt, man-handled, or controlled in any way.
Heres a random assortment of kinks for those of you who need more details orgasm control, tease and denial, sensorymovement deprivation, domestic service, behavior modification, humiliation, roleedge play.
Message me with info on yourself and how you see yourself meshing with me. Including pictures will speed up the process. Understand that I am trans and live in Brooklyn, and to be okay with both those things. Please live by the train so we can easily meet up.
Not a FinDom, not into cheaterscloseted, just want to a real dynamics with a good guy.
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