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"The slave escapes her bonds to find a stronger set of chains."
Well, I am a Dominant. I first got involved in the lifestyle in 2005 in Hudson, FL. I got friendly with a few people in a bar nearby where I live, one of which was a Pro. Dominatrix, the other a Master of over 40 years at that time. This is where I learned about the lifestyle and proper protocol and etiquette.
When I first came into the lifestyle, it was finding out that I was not alone in my feelings and it was the acceptance of others that really engaged me. Then for the time that I kept it a private part of my life, it was the little extra part of my relationship that brought us closer. |
ACTIVITIES: Whatever I tell you to do. corporal punishment
FETISHES:Bondage, Boots, Corsetry, Leather, Biting
BONDAGE: (just for play)Body harness, breast harness, chains, cuffs, collar & leashes, gags, shackles, ect.
SCENES: Intricate bondage scenes, vampire scenes, torture scenes
TOYS: Canes, clit clips, blindfolds, dildos, hot wax/ice, leather belts, nipple clamps, riding crops, floggers (preferably leather, but rubber is ok too) Single tail whips, vibrators, violet wand, and TENS units are my choice variety. But my bare hands, is the best tool of the trade.
LET ME CLARIFY!
ALOT of people dont know the difference between discipline and punishment. Discipline is training that corrects. Punishment comes when there are consequences set for the submissive when she displeases the Dominant, breaks a rule, misbehaves, ect.
Discipline is a teaching relationship that helps to mold the submissive into what the Dominant not only wants, but feels will improve the submissive. Because if she is improved she will obviously be a better submissive. To me discipline is the day-to-day structure established for a Sub. by the Dom, whose goal is to teach, guide, and mold the sub how to live to serve her better and also enhance the sub. as a person. The goal of discipline is eventually self-discipline or self-regulation. At first the submissive is motivated purely by the wish to please and serve the Dom. But gradually, that molding of the behavior, way of living, thinking and believing becomes self-discipline. In turn, the he sub Master's wants, desires, and needs become that of the submissives too.
Discipline can be as simple as a look or gesture. First off punishment is not to be confused with S&M play. punishments are consequences of violating rules or dipleasing their master. Then punishment should be cold, to the point, and not pleasing to the sub.
Punishment is something the submissive should want to avoid.
I am currently not engaged in any S&M relationships. Message me if you have any questions, or are interested in pics. PlasteredMasterD@yahoo.com SUB:Master D
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