I am sweet and caring, with a nasty sarcastic side although the sweet may not carry over on my profile. I've found it more effective to be as direct and blunt as possible on here. I love being a sub with someone I can trust in an LTR, although my experience is limited. I want to be cared for and taken care of like I will in return- notice i said WANT and not NEED, as the difference is immeasurable. I am turned on by and have a not-so-secret love of Boba Fett. I'm a scientist and I fall under many "geek" categories. I am in control of every other area of my life, and I do it well. Don't ask me: I won't post pics of me bent over spread eagled. Sorry, darling, there are things you have to earn to see. And I really really don't want to see pics of your junk, no matter how impressive you think it may be. Actually, if you have one in your profile portfolio, the likelihood of me responding drops damn close to zero. I don't IM, don't have a Facebook account, etc... if you intrigue me I'll meet you in person and see if there's chemistry. Cyberscrewing is boring to me. I am very honest, sometimes to the point of losing tact. I am not on here to find a casual screw - I can do that without the internet. Neither do I want an online tryst; fantasy is great but reality is more rewarding. I have been in enough vanilla relationships to know that there was always that something missing. I don't want to teach a man how to control me, I want a man who already knows what he wants and how to get it. I have a voracious sexual appetite, I just don't want it with most men. Quality, not quantity. What I want: ~ A man who knows how to get what he wants out of me. ~ Some patience in sculpting me into your creation; I'm a little new at it and every man has different nuances. ~ Honesty. If I can't trust you out of the bedroom I can't trust you in it and I can't/won't submit. ~ Intellect. It can make or break sex in so many ways. ~ An actual, real, physical, monogamous situation. Monogamy and LTR seem to be kryptonite words on here! I want to be selfish (not clingy) with you and you with me. ~ More than sex. If we have nothing else in common to talk about other than this, I'm not havin it. What I don't want: ~ To be treated like a sub outside of the bedroom. ~ Pain that's too extreme: I don't want to be cattle prodded or have my genitals hooked up to a car battery. I'm not judging, it's just not for me. ~ Water sports or diapers. ~ To make believe you're my dad. I don't have that particular fetish even in the slightest of senses. ~ A man that smokes or is into heavy drinking or drugs is an immediate turn-off. ~ Married men need not apply. Like I said, trust in and out of the bedroom. If I've piqued your interest send me a message. If I don't get back in a hurry, please don't be offended; I will in time... and please don't send me three more messages asking why I haven't written. If I wanted a bitch, I'd be a dom. Let me reiterate - I am not on here for a casual fuck or webcam sex! If that's what you want, happy hunting!