About Me
I'm a musician, theatre artist, and art-artist. I juggle a ton of jobs to keep life interesting. I'm a composer, and I'm into the theater scene - mostly acting.
I read a lot - last year I read over 100 books. Lots of SciFi and Fantasy, graphic novels, but also plays, alternative history, "specific history" (i.e. History of Cod or Salt etc.), and American & Asian history pre-1900s. I like movies & TV shows, but can't stand anything with a laugh track.
I'm independent, loyal to my friends, funny, creative, and curious. I have very little patience with people who don't treat me with respect. I respect and love myself. In my day to day life, I'm pretty independent and in control of everything, so I'm really looking forward to someone else to taking the wheel. I'm working on my listening skills, and not giving advice so often.
I'm very low drama and low maintenance. Communication is a huge part of this. I don't have a lot of patience for drama.
I really really like hard back massages. It also turns off any frustration like a light-switch.
Relationship Status I'm in a poly relationship: I have a life-partner who isn't kinky, but is supportive of me following my kink-path. I'm exploring what I'm looking for in another partner.
I'm Looking For
I'm mostly into men, but I'm exploring. However, personality is totally the most important thing for me.
Sense of humor is crazy-important.
I would like someone who is stronger than me. I'm fairly strong.
I'm not looking for something 24/7, or for a life partner, here. Looking for friendship and maybe someone with whom I can share more than friendship. Trust is huge for me.
I'm pretty sure I'm far more on the BD than the SM side of things. I don't really like pain, but I like the idea and threat of pain, if that makes sense.