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Greetings to all who were drawn to my profile. I aim to please! I want to be able to meet a like-minded dominant male for a long term serious relationship. I am divorced with one 11 yr. old boy who I have custody of every other week.
I am not looking for a plastic superficial fragment of a relationship - I am looking for it all. Is that possible? I guess that would depend on what a persons definition of 'all' to be.....Hmmmm. Something to ponder...I am seeking someone also single/divorced-with or without children. Ideally, I would like someone in my area as that makes things alot easier in many of respects. I am also aggressive by nature-I speak my mind. I consider myself intelligent, creative, quick-witted, impulsive, spontaneous, alternative in some respects, traditional in others. I have been submissive all my life - and on and off during my marriage. Before marrying I was quite active in the BDSM Community as I was vice president of a local club. Keep in mind this was in the old days - before computers! It was quite the intimate scene back then....I am looking for someone who wants to take me to the edge and then pull me back up safely. Someone I can trust fully as that is key. Someone I can trust to help me sink, then pull me back up again - just to sink again...I want it long and drawn out-I want it to last hours and hours so we can both enter our secret garden and relish and savor it for hours and hours, and even then some... I want someone with a sense of humor-and also serious. I want intense conversation-not just boring chat about the weather...I like good indie, art, foreign films, I record/tape a Pink Floyd tribute band at times at various venues across the state and have put out some cd's on the internet. I work alot with music online and that is one of my passions..Pink Floyd is my favorite band but I gravitate towards classical and alot of other music genre's in between. I enjoy concerts on occasion-if the band is good and prices aren't at scalpers levels! I like a night out partying-but a night home in the comfort and confines of your own abode is where I feel most comfortable...I like to write and draw and have had some poems published. One thing I am most proud of is the fact that I've been submissive all my life. This is something I have NEVER had any doubts over, any guilt, or any hesitation over...this is MY gift to you. It makes me feel 'more' of a woman-to know exactly who I am and all about my sexuality. Not just a submissive, but a proud one! I would like my special someone to be intense. I like people who like to delve and disect. They say intelligent people seek more stimulation....are you that one? I need to be safe under your thumb and have you be my equal, yet always be one step ahead of me. Men, this is not a power trip - this is for real. This is mind over matter - many people get this mixed up. I hope you have experience as if I were to train you, I might be topping from the bottom.
It doesn't take much - good company, good conversation, good music.....Make it intense...Rip the shred out of anything we talk about - that's what I call stimulating talk - and a great mental orgasm to be on the same exact plateau of thought...Mental orgasms are the ultimate - they can be found in so many things in life...Passion is what draws people to me...I have so much inside...I need to be free....I need that release, that freedom to bear my soul and body to my one and only......Since I am aggressive by nature - I need the tables turned - I need my balance - my yin/yang - I need it so badly...
Drop me a line if my profile has sparked your interest.....Until then - my best....
PinkPudding - 'PP'

"How glorious it is - and also how painful - to be an exception."
Alfred de Musset

"The mass of men live in quiet desperation and go to their graves with the song still in their hearts".
H.D. Thoreau
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pinkpudding 2009-02-19
10/27/2008 11:13:57 PM
Once again, I feel it important to stress to anyone interested in writing - PLEASE LIVE IN THE STATE OF MICHIGAN, AND PREFERABLY, CLOSE TO THE SOUTH EAST SUBURBS OF DETROIT. No matter what I write in my profile there are still men from other countries writing, young men in their 20's writing to me, people stating they want online romances...
ALL I CAN SAY TO YOU - WITH ALL DUE RESPECT - Find someone in your area - read time - with a real person. If you are interested in online romances there are plenty of chatrooms available for that.
If you are in another state - do not contact me. Please keep in mind, there is NOTHING that will happen between myself and someone in another state or country. I am here in Michigan - this is where my life is - with shared custody of a child - I won't be moving anywhere that soon, and I doubt with todays economy that most people would not be in any financial position to relocate here - after all, Michigan has the worst economy out of all the states.
 
In closing - to all of you in other countries and states - I wish you the best in your endeavors. I truly do - but by the same token, respect my wishes and don't contact me - I seek someone in my area, period. I hope you all find what you are looking for, but it won't be me - and it will be a total waste of time for you to even write me - put your energy into someone in your area, real time...there is so much more to be savored and learned by experiencing a real person.
My Best,
PinkPudding
10/17/2008 12:52:37 AM
I have an AUDIO/VIDEO greeting for all of you! Hope you enjoy
 
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....and MORE PHOTO'S HERE!

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my best,
PinkPudding
10/17/2008 12:50:56 AM
 
About Me:
good music, good company and good conversation - doesn't take much...as long as it's INTENSE and STIMULATING!
Interests:
collecting antiques, avid book reader, going to the edge and dangling there knowing I'll be pulled up again only to sink once again........
Music:
Pink Floyd. of course - plus lots more ranging from classical to bluegrass to rock!
Movies:
alternative, indie, foreign films! I hate mindless TV - I like documentaries and PBS the best if I watch anything on TV
Books:
...too many to mention but I don't like fiction.
Websites:
http://www.lileks.com/institute/motel/index.html ----very cheezy and a fave for years
Food:
Thai and Indian - the spicier the better
Quotes:
"The mass of men lead lives of quiet desperation and go to the grave with the song still in them." H.D. Thoreau
Want to Meet:
All surviving Pink Floyd members...Syd Barretts sister....many more people that inspire good conversation......
Wishlist:
just good people, good smoke and good times - and a happy and healthy life for myself and my loved ones.....
Vacation:
anyplace tropical where I can get a tan and par-tee all night!
Superpower:
to instill world peace in everyone and rid intolerance!
Admires:
quick-wit....I think?
Hero:
Helen Keller
10/16/2008 11:18:48 PM
I have an audio/video greeting for all of you!

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8/11/2008 1:12:06 AM
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8/11/2008 1:09:44 AM
Greetings! If interested, I have many more pics posted online at-
http://www.frappr.com/?a=myfrappr&id=1738177

If you are sincere and serious and live in my immediate area please contact me.

I am sick of the wanna-be's, the married men, those who contact me from Timbuktu - get a life -and don't write to me. It's just a total waste of both our time. I am real-and therefore, I seek real time! I am looking for that one special man who can be one step ahead of me and keep me safe under his thumb.
Have a great day!
Barbie - PinkPudding
1/15/2008 7:17:42 PM
Well hello sadists and masochists...Another day with the bulk of my messages coming from a bunch of looney-tunes who have no clue whatsoever what this lifestyle is truly about. It's about MIND OVER MATTER.....It's not about picking up a whip and thinking your the big man on campus when, in all honesty, you shouldn't even have that whip in your hands-for they are there for the wrong reason. Once again-respectfully spoken-this is not a power trip.
We are all strangers until we meet. A dominant who is a stranger to me hasn't earned the right to 'order' me to do anything. And, by the same token-I, as a submissive, haven't earned the right to be ordered. Rights must be earned-and trust comes first...Hang your power trip at the door - Better yet, hang the whip there too - actually, the best is that people like you don't even write me.
Thanks for letting me rant and rave...
I truly hope a certain person-and you know who you are - will put me in my place this weekend.....are you out there?
Signed,
a true submissive who still speaks her mind
1/9/2008 10:06:32 PM
...I'm sure I'm not the first one to point this out but why do so many people disregard what your profile says and write you anyways?
GET REAL AND READ my profile. No where does it say I seek a 23 year old 'dominant' in Alabama. It doesn't say I am seeking a 350 pound man in Australia either! Nor does it say anywhere that I would be interested in a couple down in Florida...Also, how could I just pick up and move to Buenos Aires for a desperate 'sugar daddy' when I am settled here and not looking to relocate just in order to have some expensive jewelry and clothes and pampering at a spa...just to be at some wack-job's disposal? No, I am not a gold digger, and, no, that is not where I find my riches...my treasures are found within and not materialistic in nature - pity the soul who tries to lure me to another country with promises of money and jewel encrusted bobbles.
And, pity the one who sits in front of his pc 24/7 wanna-be dom writing me from Alabama who is young enough to be my son...
And don't forget the ones who disregard just about all MY desires/needs/wants...Don't you read these profiles? Why would I want a submissive if I am submissive myself? Why would I want someone in another country or state? Where does it say I am interested in long distance or cyber-sex
nonsense?

I am real - so, please be real yourself.
If ANY email is sent to me that gives me the impression that my profile has not been read and/or respected please don't expect a reply back.

MANY thanks for reading the 'fine print'.
Next time I MIGHT BE YELLING IN UPPER CAPS AND USING MUCH LARGER FONT!! ; ]

PinkPudding

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 Age: 50
 Oak Park, Michigan