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Hello, there.


I've been in the lifestyle now for a while and just got out of my first Master/slave relationship that lasted a year. It was a lot of fun and we both had a great time. I definitely learned how easy I can get a person into sub-space - deep sub-space, and keep them there. I learned how to be a caring Dom yet a forceful Dom. I learned what it means to be Master, as well as what it means when a submissive or slave is disobedient, when they are just being a brat or when they are in definite need of training.

I was surprised at how easy it was for me to adapt from being a caring, loving religious guy to one wielding a flogger in my left hand and a paddle in my right as I trade off letting my slave receive discipline and alternating to pleasing me orally. How to control and ALLOW my submissive to orgasm - when I tell her to. I am an expert at waxplay, now, as well as other forms of pleasure my submissive loved, such as time on the Cross; bondage via restraints, ropes, shackles; blindfolds; humiliation, corner time, foot worship, cock worship, ass play (giving and receiving), hair pulling, exhibitionism, scening, and multiple person playing and swinging.

I learned a lot and am eager for more BDSM play! Every sub is different and there is lots I have not done yet, and of course lots I am very good at that is universally liked. I am a good, caring, respectful, yet can be damn forceful Dom and Master. Interested? I want to know! :-)

I am a member of the Boise BDSM Society (BBDSMS.com). Come check out the site, and if you are looking for a Dom to play with please drop me a line! I won't bite.... hard... and not unless we agree to ahead of time! :-)

1/6/2009 10:52:19 AM


Well, my slave and I ended our 1-year relationship. It ended amiccably and I think we both had a great time. She introduced me to the BDSM life-style, and now I'm hooked. I can never look at having vanilla relationships or especially vanilla sex the same again.

My problem is that I am not that social of a person. I'm a member of the BBDSMS.com society, the largest local BDSM group in Idaho, but there isn't that much going on, as most of the subs are spoken for. I guess I just need to be more aggressive. I just don't want to appear to be another Shark in already Shark-infested waters. I dominate in the bedroom, and am not looking to grab a herom of subs, as a few doms seem to want.

I look forward to more BDSM play and hope I can find a submissive who's wanting to find a Dom who knows what he's doing, yet respects his sub as a human being and a female. I'm not one of those Masters who always treats their slave as a piece of meat - I could do the treating as a piece of meat thing, no problem, especially if that is what was called for, but I never let me sub continue to feel that way, it was always for a pre-determined duration in my mind, and I would always console her and let her know how much I appreciated her afterwards. Same with any disciplining.

OK, there's always other fish in the sea, time to put my hook in the water...
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 Age: 23
 Boulder, Colorado