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I was trying to think what I could write that would set me apart from other writers. So here goes.
I am a 44 year old submissive male physician, living on the west side of LA. I always knew I was a sub. It was not something I ever needed to discover.
I stated that I am a physician as a way of differentiating myself. I think that a medical degree shows intelligence, perseverance, compassion, a desire to serve others, and an ability to struggle to reach a goal. Being a good sub requires many of these same qualities.
I am, for the most part, physically fit, have a good sense of humor with lots of puns, and enjoy intelligent discussions on most any topic. In my business life, I am a respected physician, with a busy practice, and have many nurses and female staff working beneath me. I am an authority figure, and demand respect from my staff and those around me.
I seek an intelligent, creative domme. To me, the mind is the most important part of a d/s relationship. I would hope my domme would enjoy having a male, who is confident and respected in the real world, but yearns to be submissive and cater to a domme's every need and whim. Privately, I do consider myself to be beneath women, and feel my purpose is to serve. This part of my life is private, and nobody guesses that I am a total submissive. Humiliation, degradation and all that goes with it are all part of what I would expect and need to show my lower position to my domme.
I want to serve for the purest of reasons. I am a submissive. I do not want to serve someone that does not have friends, or other positive aspects in her life. I want to serve a Domme who has a lot of good things in her life, and I am adding to that.
Because I am private, and have a practice to maintain, I am not a person that goes to d/s parties, etc. For me, d/s is a private, intimate relationship between two people. Trust is essential, because it allows me to comfort of transferring my power to my domme, and realizing that any pleasure I show flow from her pleasure. As far as having people skill, I believe I do have those, as being a successful physician is based on be able to blend with various personalities during their times of stress. But even though privacy remains important to me, it does not diminish my need to show my devotion om whatever way I am asked me to submit from your hands.
I am well-read, and enjoy conversations on current events, theater, music, and the environment. I am a good listener as well, so if there is a topic that I do not understand, I will listen to all points of view, until I feel I can formulate my an educated, sensible opinion. I am an excelllent masseuse, and have strong hands. I enjoy golden showers, body worship, face sitting, anal, humiliation, spanking, nipple torture, and doing whatever I can to please my domme. My limits are basically as follows: nothing illegal, no scars or marks, and nothing that will affect my health or my medical reputation or license. Most other things I will try to do, especially if it pleases my Domme.
For me, for a relationship to work, both the domme and sub must be intelligent, be able to carry on an interesting conversations, and handle changes in life. To me, without intelligence, a d/s relationship just doesn't last. I do have a good sense of humor, and can laugh at life, even when it is hard to do so. I am a joyful human being, and yet, I know my place will always be beneath you. The image of myself kneeling at your feet is overwhelming to me.
I have a willingness to listen and learn new things, place your needs above mine, and crave to please. My willingness to submit and sacrifice for the enjoyment and pleasure of another is what I value in myself as a sub.
I hope this is a good introduction. Should you have any questions, please let me know. If you have an interest in me, I would like to be considered.
== Results from bdsmtest.org ==
100% Submissive
100% Ageplayer
100% Degradee
100% Rope bunny
100% Boy/Girl
96% Masochist
94% Primal (Prey)
94% Slave
91% Voyeur
91% Exhibitionist
87% Pet
78% Experimentalist
52% Vanilla
48% Non-monogamist
40% Brat
11% Sadist
9% Rigger
2% Primal (Hunter)
1% Degrader
1% Switch
1% Daddy/Mommy
0% Dominant
0% Owner
0% Master/Mistress
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