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| Not new to the lifestyle. I'm a very open minded person who's always willing to try new things and have new experiences. Ive been living in Asia for the last year but will be moving to Oklahoma towards the end of summer. I'm military but don't want to give out much more info then that until I've talked with someone for a while. As for Kink I am a Dominant but if my partner wants to explore her Dominant side then I'll indulge her. Doesn't make me submissive or a switch, just understanding that people are multidimensional
Since I'll be coming back to the states soon I'm starting to look for my next sub/ slave. She must have a high very sex drive, be open minded when it comes to sex, and can handle a guy who comes well equipped. I will not pay to relocate someone but will take you in if we hit it off and you want to. I'm only planning on spending a few years in Oklahoma so after that, if your still my sub, then we will probably move. I love to travel so it would be ideal to have a partner that enjoys the same. Petplay is also a big interest of mine right now so if your a pet looking for an owner then message me.
As I said I'm very open minded but I wont do anything involving blood, children, scat, or permanent damage. Besides that though anything goes and I want someone who has the same limits.
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Why you can't demand service:
There are a fare amount of dominants out there that demand they be served from the start. This is such a foolish mindset and, like that of financial dominance, shows that interest is not for the sub but rather for what the sub can do. Yes one could argue that this teaches a sub obedience but this can be gained in time just by caring for a sub. The act of submission is the act of opening yourself up and exposing your weaknesses to others. It is giving yourself over to them because you believe that by submitting you will gain happiness and better yourself. If you embrace a sub on this level not only do you gain obedience but also devotion. Asking someone to instantly serve you or give you money is a sign of weakness. It says you are incapable of taking care of yourself or pay your own way. Yes these can be established later on in D/s relationship but in a way that does not make it a demand of the sub. Rather it should be a gift from the them. If i wanted someone to serve me I would hire a butler. If I wanted someone to pay me, I would earn that money myself through strength of body or ingenuity of mind. If I want someone who I can care for and help and who they want someone they can completely trust and open up to, i would have a sub. Subs don't make Dominants better, Dominants make subs better. |
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Dont message me if you cant have a full conversation with at least a few messages back and forth. Its common courtesy. You dont hang up the phone after 3 words of a call so dont stop talking after one message if you started the conversation |
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Oklahoma is seriouly lacking in kinky females. Are there really none out there seeking something long term ? |
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After many messages it has occurred to me that most people have in their mind a certain image of a Soldier. Something along the lines of big, bad, tough, works out all the time, likes to shoot guns and drink beer, etc. While those Soldiers do exist out there that stereotypical image no where near encompasses who I am. Pretty far from it actually. I used to be a hippy that played frisby golf in the park and hiked up in the woods. I Have my bachelors degree in art, I read classical literate, enjoy cooking, ride a fixed gear bike, and can actually appreciate going to the ballet. My point is that on here, because we all share a common interest in kink, most people start their conversations related to that topic. They don't take the time, nor seem to show any interest, in learning what else makes a person unique. This is a big mistake because how can we truly accept someone, or even know them, if we have only seen one side of them. So if you message me feel free to ask me about anything in life. I understand we are all kinky bastards but still, its ok to talk about something other then sex. |
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Been thinking allot lately of the type of people here, not including fakes. Many of the people here are here because they lack an outlet in their normal life. Yes there are clubs and such but most people tend not to be open about their preferences and therefore have no way of expressing them except online. It's interesting how we all think if we could just meet someone like this in real life but know that the odds of that are slim. By not being open with who we are in public, are we not being true to ourselves? Its funny to see how many profiles on here looking to meet someone but when you e-mail one there is rarely a reply. Nature of the beast with the fakes on here I guess. I think though that women choose who they are with, even if the are the submissive ones. I think that if the women here were a bit more proactive with their search, actually looking for what they want instead of hoping the right guy messages them, then they might be far more satisfied. |
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| Age: 35 |
| Arlington,
Virginia |
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