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| I've been in the scene for a long time. Played all the games, gone from excited newbie to seasoned vet. In my life BDSM, in particular, Dominance/submission, isn't a game I play in the bed room for a climax. It's a life choice I've made long ago. I've paid dearly for that decision but we must be true to who we are.
I've had ver good luck with collate me over the years so those out there getting frustrated that you'll never find the partner you need,be patient. You will. If it's a Domme your looking for, well I admit there's way more of YOU than Us. It is what it is.
I am married to my #1 submissive. A cuckhold and sissy. I also share a my house with a submissive that I have long since stopped playing with. He serves his purpose though. There's more info but that's enough for here. I am simply pointing out that I am NOT several things.
I'm not looking for my one true sub, slave or love.
I'm not fake, I'm not a professional, and never have been. I have a personal life outside of the scene and expect others to have the same.
I'm not looking for tributes, I'm well taken care of.
What I MIGHT be interested in, and those who only share the interest, will be spoken to, is someone who is more interested in being a submissive to a strong woman. I'm interest in someone is less S/m than D/s. But don't be fooled...I have my moments and I truly enjoy a bit of flogging or cbt play for my own amusement.
My home is set up in a way that it IS possible, finding such a person, to have a live in.
I'm interested in someone who is willing to keep house while we work, help me in my large gardens. Sit at my feet ready to do my bidding knowing I'm a very loving Dominate.
Oh yes, if your looking for a broomhilda, I'm not her! I treat my pets with kindness but expect total obedience in return. I don't tolerate smart asses and you can leave any male crap at the door.
Saying that I am not just interested in males. I'm bisexual and females are welcomed to speak with me. I'm NOT looking for a sexual male partner! I have a slave for that purpose. Gay men should feel comfortable contacting me IF you fit my criteria.
So, to everyone, once again. If this isn't what your looking for, do not waste my, or even your, time. What you are looking for IS out there.
To all others. I'm listening,
Phoenix
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Why is everyone so interested in how I look? Yes, that's a new picture. Yes, it was taken at a great angle. I probably look a bit heavier and older IRL.
But, again, WHY does it matter!? I am not looking for a sexual partner, and neither should you. Is it easier to fantasize if I'm attractive? Is that all you want, a fantasy??
Look, it's simple, IF you are a submissive looking for the right Domme to give you what you need, you should be much more concerned about what She knows than what She looks like. Some of the best Dommes with the largest stables were Women who you wouldn't give a second thought to if you passed on the street.
They were powerful and greatly loved for who they are, not what they looked like!
FYI, seldom does a real Domme look like the magazine pictures, and the ones that do are primarily professionals, or models making a buck, or air brushed to within an inch of their skin!
If that's what your looking for, lol, good luck. You've just a good a chance of catching Her eye as you do dating a supermodel.
And you better have a LOT of money to keep her buy your side because believe me, IF she looks like that and IF she's a real Domme, there's a thousand subs who DO have what she's looking for and she can wait for the next text.
Saying all that, looks have never been a factor in my play. What I look for are qualities that you arn't given by God and great parental genetics.
So, thank you for your compliments but really, think twice about what your standards are. You are most likely missing out on the perfect Domme for you because you couldn't get past a few pounds or a plain face.
And my best guess is your not gonna set Her into a texting frenzy because you look like Brad Pitt.
Well, maybe Brad Pitt.
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Hello all. I am currently in the middle of renovating my bathroom and haven't been around much but I have been reading some of my emails.
Let me once again state what I'm looking for. First what I'm not interested in.
I do not want, or need a sex partner. I HAVE a sex slave and am quite happy with him. I am not interested in titalating you via either emails, skype or in person. This isn't about your needs, it's about mine. If in pleasing me you derive pleasure it's a win win situation. I do not have the time or patience for someone wanting undivided attention. I work full time and own three submissives. I am busy.
I am ALWAYS busy. Which is in part why I came back on collarme. My three have their purpose, and they're good at what they bring to our family, but none of them fill the need I have at the moment.
Which brings me back to what I do want. Again.
I want a servant or two. Someone who wants to serve unconditionally. I need a maid part time and I definitely need someone who is handy outside. I want someone who will obey without argument.
If this is you fantastic! If it isn't don't waste my time.
One more thing, be careful how you approach me. I'm open and approachable but I AM a Mistress. 100%. I will not tolerate emails that presume to much, are in it for titulation, or don't understand simple commands.
Such as, I am NOT looking to relocate anyone. It complicates things and when it goes wrong, as it sometimes does, it REALLY complicates things.
What I give in return for finding the right sub or two will be discussed between us at a more private space. And in person.
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Hello all.
I've been a bit over run with several interesting emails. However, some personal things have come up and I will have to put the search for the perfect domestic on hold for a bit. I just wouldn't have the time right now to properly train a boy to be what I need. I will be back as soon as the chaos around me can be resolved.
Keep in mind that what I'm looking for is not a live in. I want a domestic that I can count on a few times a week only. I would try to find the time right now IF you fit that criteria. Until then, I'll be back soon.
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Praise be! People finally listened and I'm speaking with locals now and it makes responding so much easier. I never understood why anyone would bother with long distance relationships. In my years I have found that the majority of those interested in the scene, but only by distance, are either scared to try it, or have a significant other they're trying to keep things quiet from. I know there are Mistresses out there that will engage in over the computer ...scenes? The ones I've met are primarily interested in money. But that's just me.
This is not to say that I don't understand there are not enough good Dominates to go around. I just happen to be in the middle of the United States and a really hands on one.
Regardless, like I've said it's made things easier.
I DID forget to mention something and I don't want some of you to think I haven't read your emails, but I do have an age limit. Some of you are just too young. There are others in your age group that are starting out that will take you on but I simply can't. I have my reasons.
As you probably tell out of a scene I'm not the person who plays at being the magazine Mistress. I believe that we all have purpose and it's our mutual needs that bring us together.
What I AM is a Dominate who has a female run house. We take it so for granted that it feels very normal. For us. I take no nonsense and I play no games.
Outside of the obvious.
I also work at night, thus the late posting and replies, lol. Nite.
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NOW I remember why I quit this site! Tell me, why is it that so many say they wish to obey and serve end up doing the opposite?
Once again. I WILL not answer long distant emails. Nor will I answer those that start "do you want a little cocksucker." I'm not here for your titalation. Why do I feel that so many here are into it as purely a fantasy? I've gotten emails that, I assume, were to shock me. Perhaps they giggled as they typed and later got off thinking about how naughty they were?
Regardless, I so do not have the time nor energy for such nonsense. So, if your local. If your desire is to honest and you have a smattering of an ideal how to speak to a Mistress, write me. Mind you if it's only two words to see if I reply, there better be a hell of a picture to go with it. I'm not going to prod you into speaking.
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Something I should have added last night, if your not local, ie, within an hour or two from me in Kansas City don't waste your time writing. I am not someone who will take what little free time I have and chat long distance. I never have been. I'll leave that to the younger newbies whose life is nothing but the scene, or the pros who are after the bottom line for them, money. I don't have the time to reply and there's no reason for anyone to wait for it.
I can reiterate this enough. I am real. I am not a wanna be, I am a "be." IF I choose to venture out once more (and I've been quiet for the last few years because I DO own subs), it's because I'm looking for something very specific. I won't find that by speaking with someone I can not meet.
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Is there a contractor or plumber perchance on this island of misfit children? I'm in need of one shortly and prefer to give my business to someone who won't question my home, what they see or hear, or for that matter, me. |
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| Age: 45 |
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