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Once you become fearless life becomes limitless.
(Unknown)
There is a charm about the forbidden that makes it unspeakably desirable.
(Mark Twain)
I feel like the proverbial phoenix who is still burning. I have not reached the point where I am rising from the ashes and am still very much ablaze, hence the name phoenix_on_fire1.
I am selective in the people I choose to surround myself with and am not here to develop an extensive friend list. I will not automatically accept every friend request that I receive and I make no apology for that. I also periodically 'house keep' and those that I don't communicate on a regular basis with, or those that do not somehow provide a mutually beneficial relationship will be deleted...
In order to tell you a little about myself I first need to explain what I am not looking for:
I am not looking for friend collectors
I am not looking to exchange cam/video calls/images
I am not looking for drama, of any kind
I am not seeking 'twue doms' who immediately demand my submission and make graphic requests without actually knowing me.
I am not seeking numerous casual meaningless encounters and am monogomous
Exhales!
Assuming that you are not someone who fits into my (by no means exhaustive) list above, welcome to my profile (grins).
I am a submissive woman with brattish tendencies and a very clear idea of who I am and what I seek in life. I am friendly, but very introspective. The year 2015 saw my entry onto the scene and it has been amazing. My experiences so far have been fantastic in the main and I have made some wonderful friends. It is so difficult to define myself with the few options available on these profiles. If I could select multiple options I would, to include hedonist, brat, bottom and submissive, with heavy emphasis on submissive for the right Dominant(!), however, as this is not possible I have described myself as evolving. This is not exclusive and I continue to develop.
I am keen to explore my fascination with bondage and all that it entails. Whilst pain for pain's sake does not excite me at all and canes and similar are a hard limit for me, I am very interested in exploring impact play and consensual non consent play within the context of being physically and emotionally dominated. Intelligent articulate creative and experienced Dominants excite me. I do not play in public (hard limit). I am not looking for play, or play partners for events, although for the right person I would review that. I believe that what I ideally seek can only be found in a committed and monogomous relationship.
I currently use Fetlife as a tool for staying in touch with likeminded people who have an interest in all things kinky and bdsm related, writing the odd note here and there and for liking and/or commenting on images that pique my interest.
I have a Wordpress account, https://phoenixallfiredup.wordpress.com/ as an additional resource where I can blog freely about my thoughts and experiences as I go through this journey. I will also be using this to write my own erotica and fiction too and if you are lucky enough to read any of it, I would welcome any feedback!
Although a complete novice, I also have a keen interest in photography and am in the process of trying to set up a West Midlands photography interest group, [Birmingham (UK) Aspiring Photographers] [https://fetlife.com/groups/118226]. Feel free to join us!
In the meantime I am happy to chat online here with friendly respectful people and look forward to making many more friends. If you would like to know anything else about me, please ask!
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