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After having worked hard over the last decade, I am now in the fortunate position to be able to live where I want. My medium-term plan is to spend some more time (maybe travelling) with my slave-to-be, at some point find a beautiful place and a house, somewhere not far from the sea, and live together happily ever after. I live in China at the moment, but I am German. I am looking for a woman to become my property. I am not looking for players, but someone to whom obedience is a virtue and a way of life. I believe the bond between a loving owner and his property is something special, stronger than the love between two free individuals. I believe that by sacrificing her freedom, a woman creates a sacred bond and places a special responsibility on her owner to protect and care for her forever, as she has given up her ability to protect herself and placed her life in her owner's hands. I am looking for a woman who seeks such a spiritual development - who actively wants to become property, place her life in her owner's hands, and give up the ability to make decisions on her own. I am looking for someone who knows she will find true happiness only in deep submission. Someone who desires the sweet happiness that it means to simply be owned by another person, peaceful through the knowledge that she has found her place in life, that from now on and forever, all that is required is obedience. I don't consider such a relationship to be somehow "dark" or twisted. It is based on a special kind of love, on sacrifice and commitment: it is beautiful and bright to me. You won't be simply an unusually submissive wife. I am looking for a lifelong, unbreakable connection deeper and stronger than normal marriage. However, I am not looking for a wife, but for a woman to be my property. As such, you will be loved and protected and cared for. And while you will be my companion for life - ideally -, you won't have the same status and freedoms of a wife, but live a simpler, more restricted life centered around serving. Is that a bad thing? That depends on what you want. I am looking for a special girl who knows she is meant to be a servant rather than a lady, who has a sense for the bittersweet happiness of being restricted to obedience, and even finds pride in that; someone with the inner strength and intelligence not to be overwhelmed by the constant noise of mainstream ideology that decries obedience as wrong, even stupid, and hear the silent melody of a higher truth. By choosing this path, a very special connection between us will be formed, a connection forged of love, and of ownership. We will know: Whatever happens, you will always be by my side, as my property. Whatever happens, you will be with me, obeying me. This bond will be the fundamental, undoubted constant of our lives. I am not a player and won't be roleplaying. You will belong to me in real life and you will be naturally expected to be obedient. Your desires _will_ matter, and your needs will be considered. I am a very kind, compassionate and sensitive person (and I have always been: I remember that even as a kid, I could not watch when my friends were killing ants for fun). I do not like to hurt or disappoint people, and I will care for the happiness of my girl just as I would in a vanilla relationship. I am not petty or narrow-minded. The special type of our relationship won't mean that all will be about me or that I am selfish. In view of the special kind of relationship we will have, I will also make sure you will be materially safe should anything happen to me. I know that we all have responsibilities in life, responsibilities towards our family, that we cannot escape. When it counts, I will always be there to support my slave and in some ways I will always be a gentleman. I am not sadist. There will be no torture, violence, or cruelty. I will expect you to obey me and do as told; however, generally speaking, the work you will be expected to do won't be harder than any other job, and most likely less stressful. You will perform the duties of a maid. You will not have high standing in society, but you will be safe and loved. In some ways, your position will be similar to a kid: cherished, loved, but not entitled to make your own decisions. You will have little freedom and live a simple life, and you will find happiness in this simplicity. You will learn to behave and live in the way I want you to. But I will always be responsible when it matters, and your physical and mental well-being will have the highest priority. I could not stand if my slave were unhappy. By choosing to become a slave, by accepting the consequence that you are not in full control of your life anymore, that you will be dependent on me, that you have to obey and please, you create a connection that transcends the instability of your own personality and the contingency of life, and will be bonded to me forever. I am looking for someone who wants to develop such a situation, in which she is unfree, but loved, loved as property, because it is her path to true happiness. Qualification Requirements The most important factor in qualifying as my slave aren't looks, but the foundations of your personality. I am looking for a woman who knows from the depth of her very being that the purpose assigned to her by nature is servitude. I am looking for a woman who wants to be owned, who knows that being a man's property is her way to true happiness. I want you to share my view that submitting and giving up your freedom shows a special kind of nobility and will make you a better, more valuable person. I want you to have an independent mind: independent with regards to what society thinks you should do or be. I want a woman who is willing to forsake her prior role in society, lose her pride and find fulfilment in her new identity as a slave. When you have become my slave, the norms of society should not matter to you anymore. Your happiness and pride will come from being a good slave and the knowledge that becoming a slave is, although many people may not understand it, an act of virtue and spiritual greatness. You will know that you have become what you were meant to become, we will be connected by a sacred bond, and you will be by my side, be mine forever.
glitterdragon
 
 Age: 27
  New York