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TerrisFulsi
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Read my profile before you message me.
I dont often check this site, so it might take me a month or two to reply. I will try to reply within a month.
I also have a tendency to read a message and not respond straight away, because I may not have time to give it the proper response it deserves.
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I am not looking for online subs.
I do NOT play the very first time meeting someone! That way there is no pressure on either side to do something they arent fully comfortable doing.
I cant stand coffee, and I dont like tea either.
I have blue eyes and mousy brown hair. I am currently obese and a size 22-24 in womens or 2XL-3XL in mens. I am usually not a feminine woman, and I identify as fluidflux. My everyday style tends to be mens unisex t-shirts, jeans (or other pants), and joggers. I might get dressed up more feminine for public events, but Im just as likely to wear pants, with a shirt and tie. I am looking to continue improving my existing skills and learn new skills, but I like to take things slowly.
I have been moderately active in the public scene since late 2009 (mostly just munches). Ive been to munches, workshops and a few play parties, but recently I havent been active much at all. I am looking for a male submissive. He must be a non-smoker and a White Caucasian. This is the case even for casual play.
I am looking for a local man. I dont care if you are willing to relocate, if you are currently too far for me to visit regularly then Im currently not interested.
I am looking for a man under the age of 37, where preferably there is also potential for a relationship (though not necessarily monogamous). I might consider older if it is just casual, and I find the guy attractive enough.
Ideally he would enjoy tease and denial, tickling, anal play (him receiving), mild to medium pain. He would like to serve me in various household tasks - especially whilst naked, scantily clad or in fetish gear.
Im not really looking for a sissy, I prefer my men to be masculine.
It would be great if he is willing to accompany me as anacquaintance or friend (or more if it gets to that point) when I go to BDSM related events such as munches, parties, workshops, etc. I understand not everyone is comfortable in being open about their kink and so this is not a must for me, but it would be nice.
I would prefer someone who can write reasonably well. If you are going to write me a message do not use SMS chat shorthand! It reflects poorly on you. Native English speaker preferred. I wont accept you if your English is substandard.
I dont accept subs who are in a relationship (especially marriage!) unless they have their partners permission. I would also need some way of confirming it (perhaps a voice chat or real-life meeting). Im also looking to make new friends of any sort.
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I have a new Tantus Realdoe strapless strap-on!
Unfortunately the Joque harness I wanted to get (to assist me in pegging, and for use with smaller dildos) was not in stock. So until I get a harness it'll be just for looking good and making a sub suck my cock.
Although it is more likely I will get the harness before I get a new sub that is willing to be pegged. |
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Accessing the Collarme chatrooms through IRC using XChat:
- Click on Chatrooms (using your web browser) to find your nick and the password. You will find it down the bottom of the chat window.
- Open up XChat.
- In your Network List click add.
- Call it CollarmeIRC Server or whatever you like (if you accidentally clicked away before naming it, you can slow double click New Network to rename it)
- Select it and click edit.
- In the server box up the top, click add and enter chat.collarme.com
- Remove the other server there.
- Untick use global user information.
- In Nick Name put the name you found earlier (in the Chatrooms page of the site).
- Where it says Server password, put the password you found earlier.
- Close the edit box.
- Get of of the Chatrooms page on the website if you haven't already, or it will say your name is already in use when you try to connect.
- Hit Connect.
- Choose the room you want to go into.
- Chat away (according to the rules of the room).
*I didn't find a spot to put the e-mail it lists on the web chatroom page, but I was able to connect without it.
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If you haven't already done so: READ MY PROFILE
So many guys are like, 'I loved your profile, please dominate me'. Then I look at their profile and wonder what makes them think I'd be interested in them.
Here are 3 must-haves:
- Non-smoker
- White Caucasian
- Not trying to cheat on their partner
If you don't meet all three above, I'm not interested in you for even casual play. Not even casual online play.
Sure, I might have a friendly chat with you, but chances are unless you are really well-written I won't have the time to waste on you.
Next are the must haves for a relationship (that include the three above), and preferable for casual:
- Local (Within 45 mins by public transport)
- Common non-kinky interests
- Aged within 5 years either side
- Reasonably intelligent
- No major disability
- BMI < 40
Finally are my preferences:
- Not an illicit drug user
- Blue eyes
- Muscles
- Short brown/light-coloured hair that isn't curly
- Button nose
- Intact penis (not circumcised)
- Nerdy/geeky personality
- More intelligent than I am
- Respectably employed
- Taller than I am
- Within 3 years older than me, within 5 years younger than me
- Erect penis equal to or greater than 13 cm (but not too big)
- No minor physical disability or major mental disability
- BMI between 18 - 30
- Australian born and raised
I probably have more preferences, but that's all I can think of at the moment.
This journal entry doesn't address my preferences in kink, but too often the non-kinky stuff gets overlooked on this site.
Ideally I'd like to meet a guy with the potential for a relationship (that would of course include kink). Not necessarily monogamous. I'd actually prefer non-exclusivity, but where we would discuss and meet the potential playmate of the other, and where the guy doesn't get too much more casual sex/play than me (because then I might get a little bit jealous). I'm also quite open to polyamory - including set ups where I am not a primary partner.
I'm okay for casual play, but be aware that most of the guys messaging me on this site only want casual play. |
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Damn I hate this new verification procedure we have to go through to update our profile or write a journal entry! No wonder they say it's prudent to save a copy of your journal entries! |
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I can be a bit of a Switch/Top in that I don't mind doing things to a man under his direction, but only if it involves me doing stuff to him, like tying him up, inflicting pain and whatnot.
I am not a masochist, and I will not clean or serve or act as object or anything like that. It's only on the physical side of things. It's also only when he is more experienced than I am and I can learn from the experience.
I wouldn't mind a relatively experienced non-smoking white Caucasian Switch/bottom male(of whatever age). He would ask me to do things to him and it would be casual play only.
I also wouldn't mind a mentor, male or female, aged 25+ with at least five years experience to help me when playing with a male sub/bottom.
That is not my preferred way to play though. I am mainly looking for a submissive male who is 18+ and no more than five years older than me, with an eye to a possible relationship. Casual play and keeping things casual is also fine.
I usually like to be the one in control in the scene. I like to dictate what happens, when and how (within his limits of course!). I like to make him do stuff to me and for me and do stuff to him that he may or may not enjoy, but will at least tolerate. |
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So I haven't been getting out in the scene as much as I'd like, there have been other prior/more important commitments on when kink related activities are on. I did go to a BDSM workshop a few weeks ago though. That was good and I'll probably go to another at some point in the future.
The new semester has started and I'm looking forward to learning new things. |
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I have moved out a few months ago and am now living in a nice apartment. The view is nowhere near as good as where I was living before, and it is much noisier, but it's closer to work.
I went to a munch for the first time last Friday. It was interesting and fun. I plan on going to the munch they are having this month as well.
I also went to the Under The Blue Moon market day on Halloween (Saturday). I now am going to save up and buy myself a corset, wig, mask, and bondage pants. I also want to buy a strap-on, but I think I'll wait until I have a sub before I buy one. |
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I don't drink tea or coffee. I don't even like iced coffee. I can tolerate coffee lollies and coffee cake - but I'll usually avoid them. |
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Another fantasy - 2 bisexual white/caucasian non-smoking men (or at least willing to participate in homosexual acts), 1 submissive, 1 switch. I would watch the submissive suck off and be fucked by the switch, and other things, under my orders. I would get involved too.
It's not likely to ever happen in real life, but I can dream. |
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I don't switch, though I do occasionally fantasise about situations where I am made to dominate a man or men - usually by a group of women or mixed group (of women and men), and it is more persuasion than force. They are often mentor/teacher types, or people who want me to join their group. There isn't any sort of sexual activity between me and them, though there may be sexual activity between them and the men I am dominating. By "making" me dominate the man/men they are trying to help me. Also I occasionally fantasise about situations where I go from captive to captor. But in both these fantasies I don't spend long in the submissive role, and nothing painful happens to me. |
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Well, I'm now living and working in Sydney. My flatmate is my friend I wrote about in a previous journal entry.
Unfortunately he isn't open to kink at all. He wouldn't even consider being fingered or blindfolded, let along kinkier stuff.
I get along well with him. He's my flatmate in a 2 bedroom unit now. We aren't boyfriend and girlfriend though. We have pashed occasionally, but it's nothing serious, so I'm still looking. |
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I'm going to move to Sydney if I don't get a job down here before next semester. It has better job opportunities and better courses for study.
I have found a guy I like. We aren't boyfriend and girlfriend yet. We aren't exclusive yet either. I've met up with him a few times, and I think he's open-minded enough for at least some mild kink should we get that far in a relationship.
He lives in Sydney though, but should I move, that won't be a problem.
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I have a temporary full-time job. It goes for another 3 weeks, and I'm hoping to get more work once it finishes. This means my real life is more busy than it was. Also, because I have a source of income I can afford to go out more. Another reason my life is more busy than it was. |
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I am not looking to have a set time when I come online and chat to subs.
I use a shared computer, and because I don't work, I don't have a schedule. Consequently this means it is difficult for me to know when I am going to be online. I am usually on at least once every day or two, I just don't know when.
One sub said I should delete the part of my profile that says I am looking for am online relationship. This is purely because I want something more flexible than a set schedule!
Despite what he said, I think it is possible to have an online relationship that isn't set to a timetable. I use e-mail as my main form of correspondence, with chatting on MSN when we both happen to be online at the same time as a bonus. |
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A preference is just that. A preference. It is not something essential.
It's ok if you aren't within my preferred age range, so long as you meet my requirements.
I ask for good English because I like to understand what people mean when they send me a message.
Nobody is perfect, I don't mind if mistakes are made - so long as there aren't so many of them as to reduce the quality of the writing!
Although once we know each other a bit better, I may punish you for mistakes you make. I probably will for writing tasks. |
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I keep getting subs who aren't any good with English.
It doesn't matter if English isn't your first language, so long as you can write well. Unfortunately most non-English speakers can't write well enough.
Make sure you proofread your message before sending it, stupid mistakes like typos make you look bad.
Also, if you don't have a profile, your first message had better be a long one to cover everything the profile should cover.
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| Age: 46 |
| Vancouver BC,
Canada |
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