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I really don't know what to say. I was trained as a Sub, but the Dom who trained me wanted out of the lifestyle. I introduced my husband to BDSM when we met, but he's a Dom, and I can't teach him some of the technical aspects. I am looking for someone who can teach him to do some of the things I have experienced but can't teach Him. Also, to the other Subs out there, yes, I would love to chat with you. If you are new to the lifestyle and have questions, feel free to ask. Or, if you are not new and would like to chat, I would like to do that too.
7/10/2013 2:12:41 PM

Okay, to those of you who don't approve of my version of BDSM, without talking to me enough to know what my version is....

 

I am a mostly trained Sub.  I belonged to a Master for over a year, and he trained me during that time.  I say MOSTLY trained because there are always new things to learn. 

 

My husband is a Dom.  He rules the house, including me and the children.  He is in charge.  I make sure everything He wants and needs is taken care of. The only reward I want for doing these things is His happiness.  It's not just playing around in the bedroom.  And yes, I do get punished for not doing what I was supposed to, and not in the fun way, either.

 

Yes, we have been trying to go to BDSM functions, but it is very hard to do so with his insane work schedule.  This is why I have been trying to find someone to do one-on-one training in some technical areas.

 

And, to the jerk that told me this was not BDSM...I'm sorry that you couldn't actually let me explain any of this past me telling you that it's not me that needs the training.

6/20/2013 12:18:07 PM

Okay. Just a little note to everyone.  If all you want is someone to hook up with, I am not your girl.  Please don't message me, then get pissed when I tell you that I am married, and not willing to cheat on my husband.  I am a submissive with a husband who is my Dom, if you know anything about BDSM relationships, you should understand that I don't do things like that without permission, so don't ask.

If you want to chat, or ask me about BDSM, or anything other than hitting on me, or asking me for sex, feel free to contact me.  Thank you.

alicelowe
 
 Age: 19
 Somewhere, Georgia