Okay, to those of you who don't approve of my version of BDSM, without talking to me enough to know what my version is....
I am a mostly trained Sub. I belonged to a Master for over a year, and he trained me during that time. I say MOSTLY trained because there are always new things to learn.
My husband is a Dom. He rules the house, including me and the children. He is in charge. I make sure everything He wants and needs is taken care of. The only reward I want for doing these things is His happiness. It's not just playing around in the bedroom. And yes, I do get punished for not doing what I was supposed to, and not in the fun way, either.
Yes, we have been trying to go to BDSM functions, but it is very hard to do so with his insane work schedule. This is why I have been trying to find someone to do one-on-one training in some technical areas.
And, to the jerk that told me this was not BDSM...I'm sorry that you couldn't actually let me explain any of this past me telling you that it's not me that needs the training. |