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	I am looking for a Female led relationship; I want to please my Domme. I do not require being bound, I don't require being whipped, I am not a pain slut. What I do require is boundaries and rules, and someone who understands that my mentality is centered on making them happy. I am monogamous and prefer someone who is as well. I don't desire to be humiliated or embarrassed in public. I am a normal guy who is mentally wired to please the woman he is with. I want a LTR with kink and D/s play behind closed doors. I'm looking for someone to date, get to know first, and eventually have a monogamous kinky LTR with. I want chemistry in and out of the bedroom. I do not get kinky with anyone that I don't know or don't trust. I like to play and experiment in the bedroom. Initially I come off as a very shy, sweet, guy next door type. Once you get to know me a little you will see that I am neither shy nor the typical guy next door. Because I am looking for someone to date and get to know first; I won't consider anyone who is married or does not live within a reasonable distance for dating. I am a firm believer in "if you do not have control, you cannot surrender control." This has meaning to me. I also believe that if your life is pretty out of control, you and I will not work out. While my life may appear to be a whirlwind of crazy I have plans in place and back up plans to handle those first ones falling apart. I am organized and decisive and very much in charge in my life. You really have to bring a lot to the table when it comes to me. I am a prize to own.

2/1/2011 8:09:02 PM

What a day, I travel for my job and sometimes it is to places I don't want to be but I smile and keep going because I like the job. Well today after work my hotel did not have power. After 5 hours without it, I heard the guy say the power company said it would likely be tomorrow. So I went to the desk to ask him to find me a room with power so I could at least sleep and shower, a lady comes around the corner saying there is a fire in the hallway. LMAO.. I have the best luck with this stuff. I had to wait an hour and finally just checked out and changed hotels.

6/13/2010 12:27:32 PM

My Mistress told me that you can not surrender control if you were never in control to begin with. This thought sticks in my head today and I wanted to share it. It seems that over the years she has turned down many submissives because they wanted to submit but werent in control of their lives or themselves, so they were not actually surrendering control of anything.

5/17/2010 7:39:17 PM

From your perspective as either a Dom or a sub, when you see someone attractive what is your thoughts about them and the things you would do with them or to them. I believe that D/s both have distinct reactions mentally to seeing someone they find attractive. What do you think?