I am a 38yr old single cauc. male - blond curly hair, light, closely trimmed beard. I stand 5'10" and 195 lbs. (Ive mixed old and new pics, but you get the general idea from them of what I look like... beautiful sight that I am. wink)

If you are intelligent, sexy, strong, funny, quick, have some kind of self control, are successful, and keep an open mind - then you've met your match. And if you're lucky, you're goin' down. Hehehehe

Much of My work is in the field of sexuality and adult relationships, so I take the issue seriously. Don't apply if you have excessive hangups or baggage about sex or your sexuality. (Not if you are looking for any kind of relationship.)

I am honest about Myself and those I'm involved with. I'm not in a place where I want to marry, it's just not something I'm looking for. If you need a baby - find another sperm donor. It's not my thing. And no matter how cute you've been told you are - you won't change that either.

I do not use drugs, and you won't need to either. I'm too much fun. It would just dull the experience. I take great pleasure in both commanding and bringing pleasure to a woman - physically as well as sexually. I like to watch you squirm!

I have all My hair & teeth (just thought I'd save you asking...hehe). I work out 2-3 days a week these days - (want that competition body back). I have no children, and do not want any, but am ok with it if you have your own. I am Dominant and enjoy life outside of D/s. I enjoy BDSM as play - if are using it to work out some deep issues, then I would serve you better as a professional than as a partner.

I enjoy role playing in several themes, as long as its fun...and in the end, safe. I am straight and have no interest in males or couples other than for My pleasure, and the pleasure of the woman involved/serving me. Yet, I am currently seeking women or other D/s couples to form a relationship with Myself and a special brat. As she means a great deal to me, I want her to share in exploring others with me, and that means couples are of extra interest to us. As for single girls or boys for her - we're looking for a "just right" fit for that space. Otherwise, this is about finding friends to enjoy the company of. And lots of kinky sex.

I have a strong work ethic and am insistent upon moral and honest relationships. I will not tolerate lying or cheating as part of a relationship. Cheating women need not apply. I demand better for Myself and those I play with. If you consider manners, patience, respect or honor a weakness - then I have nothing to offer you.

Please be interesting, creative, sensual, and a bit unusual. Also be able to pay your own bills, and get yourself around. (No I'm not a taxi operator, although I have been known to give a ride or two for the right reasons).

Think you're exceptional? Communicate something more than a wink, that shows Me you understand that "tingle" of energy in good play - that "ache of anticipation" and the raw flush of desire. If you're better than a mindless girl to be ordered into sex - then give Me the naughty girl's version of a longing stare from across a crowded room. Trust Me, I'll stare back if I'm interested. I always do. (most just miss it sigh, so easily distracted).

I enjoy various types of play. I like both new subs and experienced pain sluts ... okay, I have a bit of a leaning for the pain sluts, but I can be gentle - I promise evil grin. I'm not a switch, nor am I a Top. I am a Dominant.

I use My own checklist for regular play. I take My play seriously enough to at least be detail focused. (Its cause I care...awww.... ;P ... )

If you are looking for someone who is a "lifestyle" Dominant - one that plays to be seen, and needs to "show off"... then I am not for you. I play where I choose (usually in My own playspace, or someplace I trust), by My rules. All safety guidelines are to be followed.

Buy the way, if you're taking all this as being 100% serious business, then head down to the nearest 7-11 and buy yourself a slurpie and a sense of humor. Come back and re-read the profile. Maybe then you'll get it.

Be proud of yourself - you made it all the way to the end. Only special girls have been able to do that. I may have a prize for you.