I'm a native of the Silicon Valley and have been involved with aspects of the community and scene related actives on and for many years. Being both an introvert and a bit dyslexic, written communication is one my least favorite. My favorite forms of communication include talking, touch, and chocolate. (Okay chocolate isn't communication so much as a really great way to say hello.) Best way to get to know me is to talk to me at a munch or other event. I enjoy Indian and Ethiopian foods. If you like Indian and or Ethiopian food, let do lunch.
The label "submissive male" never seemed to fit me well. About a year ago (2013 for those playing at home) I found out about the concept of a "pet human." I've never had a desire to be anything other than human, so I hadn't ever thought about trying to be a human cat or human dog. Once I discovered the concept of a "fully human pet," the last few pieces of the puzzle were filled in. Just as Dom/sub and Master/slave not only describes the people involved in the relationship, it also describes the style of interaction between them. I want to be your pet, not your slave. In a relationship, I look to the person I'm with to lead the relationship and I will follow. The best starting label I have come up with is: submissive human pet.
(I view labels as the starting point, not as an all inclusive deion.)
At the moment, I am looking to develop into a play partner with one or more people. Long term, and with some luck, I hope to find someone I can call owner.
Things I have to offer: I love touch, both giving and receiving. I have my own massage table and have been told I do very well. I enjoy spending quite time with someone. (I'm happy being cuddled up at your feet, or next to you on a couch while you read.) As with many introverts, I have a hard time talking about myself. A while back, I asked a few people to tell me some good things they thought about me. These are some of the comments I received:
"Great hugs/touch is exceptional. Never had the like before or since"
"When you speak with someone they feel like they are significant, that they matter. ... You let them know their thoughts have value. It's beautiful."
"We met only once, but one thing always stuck out for me: your happiness. Your beaming. Your sheer joy that radiated from yourself. "
"I enjoyed the sounds you made when I brushed your hair."
"Hmmm, good/nice things about you - easy!
- Beard, smile, huggable!
- Kind
- Helped me immediately and good naturedly
- Understanding attitude about the other in relationship"
"U r kind, loving, very smart, excepting talented, caring, you're very unique person"
For those who are interested:
Myers-Briggs type: INFP
Global 5: sloan RLUAI; sloan+ RlU|A|i; primary Accommodating;When I looked up the Accommodating personality type, very last words it used for the deion are: "can be submissive."
For those still reading, here's a bit more about me:
Politically I range from liberal to eclectic to conservative depending on the aspect under consideration. (Feel free to ask.) I seem to have a knack of looking at things differently most. I try not to get sucked into a binary state of choices. For years my favorite examples of this is the question: “Is a glass half-full? Or half-empty?” Why limit yourself to two choices? What I see is a glass that is twice as big as it needs to be. Recently I have expanded on this concept by realizing there are thousands of different viewpoints that could describe that glass.
I enjoy many types of music; classic rock and 60’s folk, and a genre called filk are among my favorite. Most of the time while driving I’m tuned to the local public radio station. Two of the buttons on my radio are a local college station and a local “listener support” station. I enjoy them both due to the variety of their play lists.
I tend to be easy going and easy to get along with. (That was courtesy of the department of redundancy department.) Never smoked. Very light drinker.
Thank you for reading this far. I respond better than I initiate, so please ask me questions and I will answer as best I can.
