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	As a lifelong kinkster, I have an easy home in submission, and an increasingly active desire to play the Dominant role, as well. As a healer, I am always engaged as the "dominant" in unequal relationships; translated into the world of kink, this has helped me to see that being a Dom is an act of service just as much as being a sub (perhaps more so). As a man who is deeply dedicated to service to humanity, this has helped me to broaden my range across the spectrum of D/s; as a person who is constantly pushing his own limitations, this has been a rich and welcome area of play and exploration. My real turn-on in terms of kink, however, is with bondage. As a small child (<7), I would often fantasize about being encased in glue, or within a form-fitted glass mold (just to name two!). Over the years, my kink has broadened considerably, but always as an extension of bondage in some form. There's just something about being intensely aware while also being unable to move or act that fascinates me -- like a moth to the flame. It is a spiritual experience for me, as well as an erotic one, because aside from these mortal coils, what are we if not awareness? Bondage strips everything away, until only your Essence is left -- not what you do or who you are, but pure Being. So, in the strictest bondage, I return to Source; I recognize the Buddha within. If brought there by a Mistress, I worship Her as the Goddess. If I am the Dom, it is in the role of the Divine Masculine, holding space for my pet to transform, grow, and get her rocks off in the most mind-blowing way possible. Right now, I am looking for either a play partner or a relationship in which these themes can be explored; in a relationship I would prefer to be with a switch, but for something more casual I am open to all D/s orientations. I am also looking for a mentor who can help me explore the deeper psychological and spiritual aspects of BDSM (that's a tall order, because I have done a lot of work in this area, but I still feel like there's so much to learn and I know there are others out there with more experience than I have). More about me personally: I work for myself and I am fortunate enough to have a healing practice that runs on its own steam. I used to be a math teacher in the Peace Corps. I have been to 12 countries on three continents, and plan to continue traveling and seeing the world. I am always thinking about the deeper questions in life, if only to make fun of the answers. Laughter is key in my world, so you have to have a good sense of humor - to laugh at my jokes, if nothing else. I am also kind, generous, edgy, playful, intelligent, spiritual, confident, physically active, sometimes shy, and just generally a good person to have in your life. I'll make you think about things in a different, (usually) more positive light. If you'd like to connect and see what happens, please do message me. I look forward to hearing from you.

5/8/2011 12:25:30 PM

I had a lovely time tying up my switchy friend the other nite, and taking my pound of flesh with an array of floggers, crops, and a ping-pong paddle. Once she was good and worked up, deep in sub-space, I started working her G-spot with my fingers, and that's when she really started to lose it! Eventually I moved on to fucking her, only to find that her tiny hands will indeed slip out of their restraints, given enough motivation. So then the kink dropped away and we were just enjoying the sensations and sensuality of it all, and it ended satisfactorily for us both. All in all, a very yummy evening!

5/5/2011 2:28:02 PM

Met a lovely switch woman recently - very powerful woman, very spiritual, as well. So far we have talked a lot, shared our kinky desires, made out, and I've given her a good spanking. I look forward to exploring more with her - it's nice to meet someone who has a lot of experience in having a conscious and intentional relationship with her kink/sexuality.

4/24/2011 11:58:08 PM

I went to The Looking Glass earlier for their movie night - "A Dirty Shame" by John Waters. Very funny! Then we had a couple hours to use the play space, so first I watched a man demonstrate true sadism with his sub, then went downstairs and saw a group of people working on a woman on a spanking bench. After awhile, I asked if I could join in, and the person gave me permission - as long as I did thuddy, not stingy. I mostly worked her ass and thighs with my hands while several people walked around and hit her with various floggers and some speaker wire. She took all of it for quite a while! I pushed a bit too far at one point, but after I adjusted and later asked how it felt, she said it was perfect.

When she was done, I asked if anyone else was going to get a turn -- and the ladies were only too happy to tenderize my male flesh! They were good about staying within safe limits since none of them had played with me before, but when I told them they were at about a 3 out of 10 for me, the intensity quickly picked up. One woman was really scary, and kept squeezing my balls way beyond my limit, but I took it for them -- they were on Top, after all.

4/20/2011 5:19:37 PM

I met another sub female through a friend of a friend. Really a beautiful person, and I would have loved to play with her, but she likes really heavy verbal humiliation, and that's just not my thing. I can be stern and I'll point out bad behavior in no uncertain terms, but true humiliation is not something I enjoy enough to be very good at, even if I wanted to try (which I did! Did I mention that she is beautiful?). Still, I'm happy to have made a new kinky friend.