You are my treasure and it is important that you know that.
Every aspect of our relationship is founded on the concept of you being my treasure. It speaks to my sense of ownership of you, my sense of entitlement to you, my claim on you, my irresistible urge, right even, to use you at my discretion.
It also speaks to my responsibility to care for you and protect you, my duty to ensure your wellbeing and to meet your needs, my obligation to compel and deny you, to guide you and to lead you to safety.
You are my treasure. It speaks to how important you are to me. It also says that you are mine and that you belong to me. You are not your own anymore. On the other hand, you are not on your own anymore, either.
This is not an equal relationship. I will take from you everything that you have to give. And when you think you have nothing left to give, I will wring even more out of you.
I am arrogant enough to believe that through me taking what I need and want from you, you will find your own satisfaction and have your own needs met. That by belonging to me, by being possessed by me, you will find freedom through peace of mind, freedom to be who you truly are and to drop the mask you wear to protect yourself.
This is not an equal relationship. We are not the same. You belong to me and I belong with you. Yet, we are equally important. You are the treasure and I am its safe-keeper. Your role is to be the source of beauty and nurturing warmth and my role is to enable you to do and be everything you can be for me.
I expect you to submit to me. I recognize that it is something that may be hard for you to do on occasion and I do not consider resistance from you as a negative thing; together we will find the reason for your resistance and work through it. Also, it is more important that you feel free to express truthfully how you feel in every moment.
I expect you to be an eager accomplice in your own debauchery, in your own violation, in your own defilement. I also expect you to be a keen collaborator in the rest of our relationship.
This is not an equal relationship. The concept of fairness has no place here. Instead, we strive for harmony and to meet each other’s needs while acknowledging that our needs are vastly different. You need me to be aggressive and invasive whereas I need you to be responsive and receptive.
I promise to use you and take from you as you care for me and nurture me. I am a sadist and as such, I will hurt you. However, I will not harm you. You will always know that you are pleasing to me because I simply take whatever I need and want from you whenever I need it or want it. I am not giving you the option to decline; you are mine and I will use you at my discretion.
I promise to look out for your wellbeing. I will protect you and keep you safe and never abandon you. I will hurt your body but I will not hurt your heart. I am your home just as you are mine. You are my treasure and you belong to me and I consider you my property. I will not share you and I will not squander what you give me. If, at any point, you feel unsafe with me or feel that I am neglecting your needs (not your wants, however), you must tell me at once and we will figure out how to get back on track together.
I promise to honor all limits that you request me to observe and I have agreed to. Remember that I cannot honor a limit or tread gingerly around a subject unless you explain it to me. Free-flowing communication between you and me is paramount.
I expect you to be honest and forthright with what you think about and what you feel. I will not allow you to keep secrets from me, even those that you may think serve to keep the harmony in our relationship. I am not giving you the autonomy to make that decision.
I promise to learn your mind and your heart and your body and to use that knowledge to torture you and to keep you safe. You will use safewords whenever is appropriate to augment my own sense for your emotional and physical state. Note that the safewords are not yours to do with as you want. I am not giving you permission to stop using those safewords unilaterally, no matter how much you trust me; safewords may only be dispensed with if we both agree to do so.
You are the nurturer and care-taker in our relationship and I expect you to pay attention to my likes and dislikes and proactively make my life easier and more pleasant. Unless you ask me for instructions, I expect you to figure out things for yourself. You are a grown woman and I expect you to use your considerable intelligence and imagination and resourcefulness to become the best girl for me possible.
You are my girl. Now, get to it.
