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I'm looking for a longterm, TPE, 24/7, live-in relationship with a kink oriented woman. I am fully committed to my role as a dominant man. To that end, I am not looking for a live-in gold digger or prostitute. I firmly believe in "traditional" roles. I can say TPE but maybe that doesn't draw the line hard enough. I mean I seek a woman that exists in a support role to my own existence. She would cook, clean, and tend to my physical well being in ways beyond sex. Her subservience would be reinforced on the regular.
That sounds very domestic, of course, but trust me I can be creative. I do have experience in the BDSM lifestyle, but in the past as a "switch" and as a matter of kink. My life journey has shown me that being dominant is more than a sexual lifestyle for me but a "spiritual" necessity.
Note: I have zero interest in financial transactions for play of any sort. Also I am not open to poly or swinging and if I were, and I'm not, it would never include another man. I do think there's a difference. I prefer a slave valuable enough to not want to share her with people from the internet or the bar.
My Self Summary:
I suppose the most important thing about me is that I'm an intensely creative person and always have been. I spend a large part of my time on growing that side of myself. I write, I paint, I work in mixed-media, I've done my share of music and will probably do more in the future. I wouldn't say my work is beautiful but it is honest and probably a good bit dark.
I'm finally committed to putting things on the internet, so here's this: http://josiegallows.com/ . Not exactly pornographic but probably not safe for work.
I don't have a trust fund. I don't plan on retiring on a nest egg of Ramen Noodles because of principle. So I'm a double major in USFSP for Criminology and History. I want to learn everything I can about the elements that make society and institutions the way they are. I plan on kicking ass until I have Dr in front of my name. Realistically, I could see myself doing government work at worst and that's not too bad for a worst case scenario. Yeah, I'm something of a “late bloomer” but that would imply my journey hasn't been worthwhile.
I used to have a story up here about how when I was a teen some Pentecostals tried to cure my food poisoning by feeding me pieces of Bible paper. I've been a lot of places, seen a lot of things, so I guess that contributes to my certainty about certain life expectations. I don't know, the hard part here is showing who I am and the real diversity of my experience without overwhelming. But I'm gonna condense it and just say I've lived in just about every socioeconomic environment in the US and my mind is thoroughly open.
I would describe myself as rugged, dauntless, loyal, honest, but also unorthodox and an outsider.
What I'm doing with my life:
Currently a full-time student after saving up enough money to devote myself full-time to the future rather than merely the present. I'm blessed to have that luxury.
Activism and a desire to leave a positive mark on this world are big parts of who I am and what I have to do with myself. Luckily, my lifetime has made me willing to get my hands dirty and do hard work rather than be an armchair politician. I've attempted good works (not idealism and ideology) whenever possible. I'm getting ready for it instead of going in all half cocked. Works before faith.
I'm also kind of a muckraker. I like to pull up a chair and watch people freak out all monkey-like. During the Occupy movement I built the original data infrastructure for Occupy Saint Petersburg and a few other groups. In the end I found the lack of real and direct community involvement to be distasteful. The screeching hysteria was fun though. Really, really fun. Lemme tell you about hardcore rad-feminists colliding with libertarians in a park next to a yacht club.
Other than that I'm getting more involved in the arts scene here. I paint disgusting things that aren't meant to be pretty. I had a six week showing recently. Most of my creative time is dedicated to my writing though. Coming off the back-burners are a couple of music projects. I'm pretty sure 2014 is gonna make me look like a renaissance man but really I'll be emptying a very old closet.
I do a lot. I always have something rattling around in me.
Favorite books, music, movies, and food:
Books:
Top three favorite fiction books: Exile and the Kingdom by Albert Camus, The Man in the High Castle by Philip K. Dick, Invisible Monsters by Chuck Palahniuk.
Movies
Here are two: Twelve Monkeys and Buffalo 66.
Shows
Battlestar Galactica (reboot), Breaking Bad, Mad Men, House, LEXX, Doctor Who, Absolutely Fabulous, House, The Increasingly Poor Decisions of Todd Margaret.
Music
I really like experimental music, darker jazz music, industrial, post-punk and/or goth. I don't have any major prejudices against music except for modern Nashville country music and really materialistic rap.
Food
Pretty much anything except for lettuce, non-caramelized onions, bell peppers, bananas, pineapple, frogs, and octopus. I can't deal with pickles and this complicates my tuna-melt loving life. I tend towards "mostly vegetarian" for both health and ethical reasons. My submissive would be well versed in southern, asian, and indian cuisine, be able to prepare them, and have them prepared when appropriate.
FYI, I like my scotch and cola with two fingers of scotch and exactly three ice cubes. I also enjoy vodka tonics with a single wedge of lime.
On a typical Friday night:
More than anything I really like to walk about and talk with someone fascinating, that's probably my most favorite thing to do. Just me and that person, maybe another person. It's the best. I love to meander but not so much alone. Hiking is something I want in my future.
Note: not straight-edge but I like to keep bars and alcohol to a reasonable minimum. Regular drinking and my body don't go together very well.
If I'm not stupidly single then snuggling and movies is a Grade A good time.
CollarMe edition: Smacking you around, using you, and having you serve me would be a good Friday as well.
The "bad."
My hair is thinning. I'm not eternally young. As a woman interested in men that shouldn't be a problem, since you should prefer a man and not a boy and not a woman.
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