I am seeking a person in or near Norway willing to give themselves, and in time their autonomy up in the service of another.

Someone seeking to belong to some greater purpose. If you are the one I am looking for there needs to be a yearning for the freedom that only true servitude can bring them.

For far too long you have had to endure the lies and expectations the world have imposed on you.

Layers upon layers of delusions that you have been forced to internalize, when all you really want is to disappear into nothing. You crave the certainty of knowing that you are fulfilling your purpose. Knowing that you are where you belong, simply because your chains do not allow for movement. At peace with your place in the universe.

To be seen for what you really are, without being discarded.

I am a man who works in a creative field. I enjoy growing a few plants on my balcony, and it gives me a sense of pride to watch them develop and thrive under my care.

I'm 179cm tall and keep myself in decent shape.

In the past I have sought to capture a sense of erasure and transformation in my art. I enjoy painting, and it is how I first developed an interest in BDSM. I am a strong believer that there is a beauty in the grotesque, and the search for this elusive state is what drove me to explore degradation as a means to achieve these moments.

Although I have enjoyed these short term sessions a great deal I am now looking for someone interested in achieving more permanent results.

I value degradation and humiliation as tools, but it is not out of cruelty. I view my ownership as a kindness. In time we will work towards dissolving the false identity crafted for you in order to adhere to the expectations that come with personhood. Names you did not ask for, aspirations for self realization that are not truly your own.

All of it has only served to detach yourself from the only thing that has ever made sense to you. You were always meant to be a vessel.

Your purpose is to become a tool.

It is not a simple procedure, and one that requires commitment from both of us.

As much as the proposition might intimidate you it also comes as a relief to the right person.

The idea of erasing the self should be a weight off your shoulders.

Although this all might come across as quite harsh I want to make a point to mention that the core of the dynamic I seek is one of affection and devotion. As much as you seek to be possessed, I am seeking a possession to cherish. Accepted for what you are, appreciated for what you are not.

The deficiency of self will be your greatest asset, the less you become the more dearly you will be held.

In this sense your worth or value to me will never be in question, nor will your place at my side.

Being useless, and being useless to me are two very different things.

I do not expect or require immediate or perfect submission. Total obedience requires total trust, which must be built towards and earned. This dynamic will be a collaboration. We will both work towards a mutual goal, although from very different roles.

I consider myself to be deliberate in my control, and although I am no stranger to pain, it is not enough to blindly flail away to create the right conditions for you to grow into what I am seeking. I desire to create a gradual shift in behavior towards an eventual loss of self.

Although my desire is to see this ideal carried out in the right submissive I am open to talk to people who are simply curious about the process, or intrigued by the idea.