I live in a bedsit I happen to love.

I do not drive.

I have no ambitions to become wealthy, though if opportunities arise then I “may” take them.

I'm not highly educated but I do consider myself intelligent.

I have a slave Ember who I am extremely fond of, she lives in the states with her husband and occasionally visits me here in the uk, they are a poly couple and he is well aware of me, in fact we are good friends.

To the outsider I am a selfish person and in some respects they would be correct, I enjoy very much my own space,. .

I am a friendly down to earth type person, but if you want to get to know more about me, read my blogs/board postings, I don't do major online chatting so please don't ask, its been my experience that online chats lead to illusions that can be shattered, I don't know about you, but I don't want to waste my time and emotional energy on illusions, take me as I am and I will do the same in return, if your looking for a dream please don't look in my direction.

I have very set ways, extremely stubborn and react badly to anyone who attempts to change those ways.

So what am I doing here, simple, I'm looking for a sex slave, I get off on the power, I'm looking for a woman that gets off on being used, someone who gets off on humiliation, someone who wants this because its their desire, someone who has no hidden agenda, someone who can actually understand that each person is an individual and not think that living in each others pockets is the way it should be.

If your married, in a relationship and keeping it a secret from your partner please do not contact me with a view to meeting, I'm not sitting in judgement, what you do is your affair but I have no desire to be a part of it.