I think I started stepping in the lifestyle when I was a little kid and started to play with some Mom's Female friend or relative high heeled feet under the table..."fascinations".....there was an adult store called like this in Phoenix lol...now it seems to me that BDSM is the salt and pepper of life...it is larger than life actually and just like music you have never finished to experienced it all as it is so diverse...there's always something there for anyone!